I love one of my classmates(Its really love, not a crush) But telling her about my feelings seems pointless..?

because i know she is not into me(dont ask me how,i am sure she doesnt feel the same way) i feel really hopeless this time. i feel sick and weak all day and dont want to do anything.its like im living in hell without her.School is closed and i cant see her(im 19 by the way,dont think im 12) what should i do? i really need help!!

I love one of my classmates(Its really love, not a crush) But telling her about my feelings seems pointless..?
forget about her cuz women dont care at all about a guys feelings.
Reply:She must think you're nice...go up to her ask her if she'd want to go out with you and some other friend, she must have some free time, hey it's summer!! or better yet you must know a guy who's friends with her, ask him if he'd be willing to set you two up, you never know it might work...hey you might even want to ask another question on yahoo asking...hey girls, what can a guy do that would make a girl like him? give her a gift, tell her how i feel about her, write a song about her, take her on a hot air balloon ride, what?!!...you never know, you might get some good answers.





-just a kid
Reply:Nothing ventured, nothing gained...I suggest you ask her out on a "date," and tell her that you care for her, and enjoy her company, and would like to take your relationship to the next level...and see where it goes.(Make sure you let her know that she is under no obligation to reciprocate your feelings.. if she is not interested in anything more than a "causal friendship," that you will respect her decision.)





If she doesn't feel the same "attraction" to you, as you do towards her, and just wants to remain friends, then you must choose to accept the relationship on her terms, and begin dating other girls/women.





You are only 19yr old..plenty of time left..to find your"soul"mate...life long partner.





Look forward to life...do not stand still...or look back.
Reply:hye i know how you feel to an extent. i love someone but im not sure he loves me yet. i know he is getting there. call her and set something up. dont drop the bomb on her. yet. just tell her that you like her and want to give it a try. find out what she feels about it instead of assuming its hopeless. and lots of times u really cant tell what someone feels about you because your so concerned about it. you dont sound so young. love is crazy.
Reply:I think you do need help, you dont really know this person and your saying there is love. Go seek some help.
Reply:I went through this the first 20 days of summer. Just call her because it will make you feel better. Unfortunately, I have not called the girl again because she is supposedly playing games.
Reply:U will never know unless u try n ask her out