I love one of my classmates(Its really love, not a crush) But telling her about my feelings seems pointless..?

because i know she is not into me(dont ask me how,i am sure she doesnt feel the same way) i feel really hopeless this time. i feel sick and weak all day and dont want to do anything.its like im living in hell without her.School is closed and i cant see her(im 19 by the way,dont think im 12) what should i do? i really need help!!

I love one of my classmates(Its really love, not a crush) But telling her about my feelings seems pointless..?
sorry but if she doesn't know how you feel it isn't love, romantic love anyway. Love needs to be recipricated. my guess is she doesn't like you that way because you're whiny and a little ******. grow a pair and maybe she'll be interested
Reply:what makes you think it's 'really love' and not a crush
Reply:By telling her you won't lose anything, you'll know where you stand. I don't think you should tell her you love her because most probably she won't believe you.


You can start by being close friends with her, and then tell her you feel attracted to her, and see how it goes from there.





Since school is closed at the moment,why don't you try to get her cell number or email address. You can talk online and if you feel shy you can tell her how you feel easily.


The worst thing that can happen is that she'll ignore you, but you still have hope now.......so go ahead contact her. I'm sure you will feel good that you've done it after.





Good luck! ;)
Reply:Hun, this isn't love or a crush.. it's an infatuation.. go ahead and look up the definition.. You're obsessed with someone who isn't into you.. that's not love. There was a guy back in high school who used to chase after me all the time. He was so sweet about it. He drew me pictures and wrote me poems and letters. But the attraction just wasn't there for me. It's been three years since I've graduated high school. He contacted me and actually apologized for all the stuff he did back in high school. Realizing that we weren't meant for eachother. He moved on and now we're friends.. this is what we were supposed to be the whole time. But, he scared me away back then. If you have never pursued her than how do you know she doesn't like you.. or that the attraction couldn't potentially be there? If you know that this will never be than find a different girl to swoon over.. The sooner you find a love that is returned the sooner your spell will be broken over this girl. You will probably never stop having feelings for this girl.. but maybe you can get on with your life. Hope all ends well!
Reply:just approach her gradually. show yr good points to her indirectly. if she finds u honest, she will come to u.
Reply:Do you have a way of contacting her? If you do then why don't you organize a group of your friends to go somewhere for the day (to the beach/lake/park/BBQ) and invite her and some of her friends. It would be a casual way of spending time with her, plus if YOU do the organizing she will appreciate the fact that you did it and asked her and her friends, plus you come across as sociable etc. Show yourself in a positive light and give her an opportunity to get to know you better. Hope it works out.
Reply:Just run up in front of the class and wrote ur feeling on board with chalks. Sure you will get her attention.
Reply:please never proceed with this thinking. it is better you concentrate in games, sports, summer classes etc and definitely not on love. this is not at all help you in any way. please..................................... forget this bad dream which should not come true.