Sunday, August 22, 2010

What should i get my classmates for valentines?

there are two boys that i like . and their are a couple girls in my class and i dont know what to get for either

What should i get my classmates for valentines?
cute cards and some chocolate...everyeone loves that!

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How u feel all old classmates can keep in touch easily?

Hi guys we have found our class mates after 9 years now we are not able to keep in touch constantly with each other what are best ways to keepin touch...some are in UK,Some in US, some in various parts of India,

How u feel all old classmates can keep in touch easily?
My graduating high school class just celebrated our 40th year anniversary last month. We have an e-mail directory that is kept up by an elected rep. from the class. As each persons e-mail address changes, they notify this person who sends out a notice to everyone else. We also share pictures, life experiences and what have you. it's a great tool to stay close and in touch.
Reply:get each other's email and sign on Yahoo IM.
Reply:E-mail?
Reply:if i have one, i'll ber really thankful since i have a little problems connecting my old friends. they have their own things to do now..


working, studying or else....
Reply:keep in touch with old class mates and find old friends at reunion.com
Reply:Yahoo 360 is a good way to keep in touch and keep your friends informed on your life.
Reply:Classmates.com would probably be the best... then try myspace.com


Do you get email from Classmates.com saying 18 searches were made for you?

I'm a real S.O.B.........I don't think 18 people really want to reunite. is this just a scam for them to sell me a membership?

Do you get email from Classmates.com saying 18 searches were made for you?
No... maybe people aren't searching for me.





But they send me all kinds of other irritating, unsolicited emails about people in my class that have added, or something.
Reply:yes all the time. Most of the classmates you went to school with dont give a rat's azz about contacting you, and do we really care what they are doing?
Reply:called fishing to draw you in
Reply:Yes and reunion.com also then when i fell for it and paid to sign up I found out that is was not anyone i knew. I was people way out of my age group, from another state looking for someone with the same name I have.
Reply:yes, I think so...I've had that to but would never pay to see it because they are almost out of business.
Reply:No, I don't get that many searches because my name is not that common. Mine always says like 2. It's counting searches for anyone with the same name as you. Classmates.com sucks. It's a huge ripoff. Yeah, they are just trying to con you into a membership. Everyone can do the same thing on Myspace so they're losing business and getting desperate.
Reply:It's a scam. Heck, I made up a totally ficticious name for my graduating class at my high school and I got "10 searches for you this week...." And then they want you to join to see who was searching for you.
Reply:All the time. I doubt they have actually searched for anyone. It is just a scam to get you to buy the gold membership

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I am looking for former classmates of Lancaster Bible College?

I went there for one year back in 1995 and am finding it hard to locate email addresses and trying to find them. Don't even mention those stupid web sites that "help you" find the addresses, cause they don't work!

I am looking for former classmates of Lancaster Bible College?
Perhaps the Classmates.com website will help?





Good Luck :)


How should i let the classmates love me?

i was in the other class so the school moved me and my bestfriend from the class to the other class and we hate the other class and they hate us and now some girls are trying to say for my best friend things to hate me and all the class dosent love me

How should i let the classmates love me?
Yeah, I guess letting them love you would make it easier for you and your best friend to get along with them.





...How old are you?


What happened to shinji's classmates after episode 22 of evangelion??

i'm just wondering, did they all die after rei self destruct her EVA unit? or everyone just evacuated tokyo 3?? i'm confused.. everyone suddenly disappeared... can someone answer this question...

What happened to shinji's classmates after episode 22 of evangelion??
The pictures in the previews seem to show that Rei's EVA-00 self-destructed outside the city, so the classmates were most likely not killed (the explosion did detroy a dam and let a lake or the ocean flood Tokyo-3).





Also, in episode 24 (when Kaouru arrives) or in End of Evangelion -- I can't currently remember which -- Shinji mentions that his class has been moved away from the city (since it's flooded). Add to this that Shinji isn't wracked with guilt or sadness over their deaths, which he would be, so it seems pretty obvious to me that they all survived EVA-00's destruction, but were evacuated out of the city. They probably ended up being consumed by Human Instrumentality in the movie.


How do i wow my classmates after this christmas break?we wear uniforms so,what else can i do?

it's after the christmas break here in the philippines...i always want to look great. but i kinda have trouble with it bec. we are allowed to wear "light make-up" (it's still make up though)...my leather shoes are always the cutest...i just had my hair done for our school party...i already use contact lenses...i don't have to be thin or fat coz my weight is fine.i'm done with braces. i'm a top student with good grades. how do i top those stuff???...


it's not that i'm insecure but it's fun to have complements especiall after a long vacation right?

How do i wow my classmates after this christmas break?we wear uniforms so,what else can i do?
do something with your hair or wear accessories, i.e. nice earrings, necklace or hairclips.
Reply:Keep doing what your doing and all will be well.
Reply:You sound like you doing fine just being yourself, but if u reeli want something then acessorize, y'no badges, hair clips/bands, nail polish, bracelets, ear rings, necklaces, what about a hair braid or an hair extention?
Reply:accessories are good, especially headbands. a thicker one, with like stripes or polka dots are in right now.
Reply:Why not but some new perfume or body spray? something totally different to what you usually have, but nice enough that you'll get compliments! =D
Reply:Try to have a great personality... What a person wears means absolutly NOTHING !


But, a person with a great personality will ALWAYS be liked AND remembered....
Reply:how about getting your hair coloured? or maybe a nice new haircut ,some clips and bracelets,some neckleces . but dont overdo it otherwise you'll look like a xmas tree
Reply:Go for the bling factor: Jewelry or even better, a tiara!
Reply:Buy a pair of nice looking eyeglasses (you should have one as a backup anyways to your contact lenses). Wear them once in a while. Go to contact lenses here and there to keep your eyes in familiarity to them.





I did the same with some very fashionable glasses and now I have a lot of people complementing me on how good they make me look.
Reply:It seems to me that your doing everything right! Just continue to do so and you'll be fine with that and your friends are already wowed so don't over due it become arrogant. Your doing a great job. Keep up the good grades and just be yourself and you won't need anything extra.
Reply:treat your hair for a rebond or relax. get some bangs like anne curtis..=p
Reply:Get a tan so people will think that you spent holidays at the beach ;)

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My so called friend and classmates keep telling guys and girls i used to be a man?

hi im a 16 yr old girl in high school. it seems to me the females in my school really hate me and don't want me to be happy. this asian girl started a rumor of me being born a guy and having my thing cut off and now i'm a girl. every time i look nice and guys talk to me and compliment me, some stupid female in the class tells him a used to be a guy and now i just want to cry because everyone is looking at me. i cant even have a guy i can talk to because they call me a guy. and they even told the teachers! my friend always tells cute boys im a guy whenever they they try to get me or be nice to me. it's so bitchy. these girls jealous me to the extent that they steal my stuff. what should i do?.and one of my so called friends from church who is a radical christian girl hates me because guys look at me all the time and she started rumors of kissing her boyfriend and being a whore.is this real christianity? or just plain stupidity?

My so called friend and classmates keep telling guys and girls i used to be a man?
wow, thats a really tough situation. i feel really sorry, and i know that YOUR the one who is telling the truth.


it may sound kiddish, but i really think you should tell someone, like a councelor this. they would understand, and give you a good solution.


DO NOT make up a rumor about that wide-eyed, flat-nosed, yellow-faced asain girl. it will just make things worse.


i hope this helps!


good luck!
Reply:Its jealousy. They are not your friends if they started these rumors.
Reply:If anyone is treating you this way, they arent your friends. First off, they are jealous of you. Second, F*CK them!!! Stand up for yourself, and b*tch them out. If you bite back, they will go running.





Good Luck!!!
Reply:Well I'm a guy so I never noticed the cattyness that went on between girls until I went to a ghetto school and noticed how mean girls are to each other.It's jealousy,don't worry about.Just the other day this girl was jealous because her crush was flirting with this other girl and she told everyone to stay away from her because she had a herpie on her lip and aids.The girl was crying on the day of the Fcat(standardize test in my state).Anyways,if these girls are talking about you you must be doing something right because all the guys are talking to you and not them.Most of the times us boys don't believe nor worry about the rumors that are spread about the girls.If we you want to hook up with the girl you'll get her.But I must say I'm gay so I don't have to worry about getting the girl but,I am a guy and I know what we want.
Reply:anyone that started these rumors aren't your friends. i ask ppl that call you a man how they know if i was born a man.
Reply:Stupidity, hun, and they're not your friends at all...





For one, male-to-female transsexuals do not have their "thing cut off", so if you hear them say that or hear someone ask about it, you can simply smile and say "Shows how much they know". Because obviously, they are stupid and know NOTHING about people with real gender issues and operations...





Secondly, please remember you have NOTHING to prove. Don't do anything idiotic like taking pictures or whatever to "prove" you're a girl. Keep your chin up; eventually they'll stop being stupid, if you try not to let it get to you and keep on being a happy person.





And lastly... TELL someone! Complain to a teacher, the principal, or to the superintendent. Tell them that the rumors are affecting your school life, and that the girls have been stealing from you... that's theft, by the way, and is illegal... and that you want it to stop.





Try to stay strong, and remember to smile. Stay safe, be honest and try to be happy... You'll make it.





Good luck!
Reply:They're jealous and not your real friends. I went through something very similar in middle school. I got teased a lot and stuff, but I had this necklas that was awesome. It was a muchroom necklass and very special to me being that it was a gift from my dad, well, one day in gym, while I was in class, a girl stole it from my locker and gave it to her friend. They both were hated very badly by me mainly because of all the teasing they put me through. But there was nothing I could do. Sometimes you just have to ignor them and hold your head up high. You knwo the truth so don't let their insecurities become you own. You're beautiful, talented and too good for any of them. Forget them and move on. :)
Reply:Ugh this sounds horrible! I can't believe how cruel teenage children can be. The important thing you need to do (and possibly the only thing you can do) is to remain confident. When they lie and say that you were once a man just say, "Yeah. I actually used to be a pretty hot guy." Just get even with them and play around with their minds.. They will be so thrown from a loop they won't know what to say...





Most importantly you just need to keep your self-confidence up. Don't let them make you hate yourself or your life... They obviously are the ones with the problems. You know you are a female so just ignore them! You are better then them:]





be strong.
Reply:It's jealousy AND stupidity. Friends don't make up rumors like that about each other. If a guy just listens to stupid teenage girls, then they're not worth it. Don't just take this kind of abuse from your friends. Stand up for yourself!!
Reply:Grl honey i swear to God if these *********-E-S be starting **** about u they sure as hell aint yo f-u-c-k-i-n-g friends ant they r just f-u-c-k-e-n jealous and u noe wat if all the people in ur school believe that rumer then they are all dumb asses and u shouldt care for f-u-c-k-e-r-s like that!!!!
Reply:This is jealousy, plain and simple. High schoolers can be especially cruel to one another. People will treat you badly only if you let them, and remember, the reason they do it is because they want to be just like you. Run with the best, and ignore the rest.





Easier said than done, but in a few years none of these people will mean anything to you. Hang in there and good luck.
Reply:It seems to me that your girl friends all seem to be green with envy!!!! you must really be a pretty girl so that your friends would go to all the trouble to spread so many nasty rumors about you!!! they are very jealous of your effect on guys!!!!! first of all confront those girls and give them a piece of your mind tell them that if they don't stop making up stuff about you that you will spread nasty rumors about them!!!!!! AND DO IT!! they have no right to ruin your reputation!!!!! and don't consider them friends either!!! find people who really care about you to hang out with!!!
Reply:its sounds to me that you are dealing with a whole lot of dumb chicks. to solve the problem with you being a guy, just bring a baby picture of you to school and show the hots guy in class the picture. bring a couple of them. i know that will stop that rumor. and the silly girl at church just tell her that your going to pray for her.


Im being tortured by my classmates cuz i wouldn't sing!?

so these people inmy class are saying if i don't sing them a song tomorrow


they will bring in this horrid CD i made 3 years ago %26amp; I SUCKED at singing then :/


they also were hitting me %26amp; pulling OUT my hair saying they'd stop once i sang


they were being really mean!


they also tried to break my reading glasses %26amp; stole my stuff! :/





so i dont WANT to sing in front of them


even though i know i CAN sing, i can't in front of people





so yeah thats not the point though..


ii have to sing a song tomorrow...


can you help me not be so scared??





i mean, i sing on youtube


but thats sooo differant!

Im being tortured by my classmates cuz i wouldn't sing!?
well no one can make you do anything you have to learn have to do it by yourself.i can understand that being pressured into doing something can be extremely hard but as life goes on you will be pressured into doing alot of things the most important thing is that its ALL up to you and what you want to do=D
Reply:They are probaly jerks. so just tell a teacher or something it is okay to tattle some times good luck
Reply:i agree with the 1st guy up there!
Reply:Tell someone! They can't get away with it!
Reply:have the people who are saying this seen ur youtube? maybe they say ur thing fro 3 yrs ago and thought "u couldn't sing then..so u prob. cant sing now" soo they want to amek a joke out ofyou.. maybe if they saw ur youtube thing and can see you cna sing now.. theyd jsut drop it... if not id get over my nerves and prove them wrong!! good luck








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Reply:If I went to yo school I'd **** dem nigggas up. You can sing good by tha way
Reply:Please tell me why this belongs in singles %26amp; dating.
Reply:If you don't want to sing you shouldn't. I'm surprised that a teacher didn't step in and stop this.
Reply:it sounds to me like you need to find some new friends? friends are the ones who are at the hospital when you are sick they are the ones who are there when everyone else is gone. that's what a friend represents. when you got friends like that you don't need enemies. you seem like a really nice person a rare quality in this day and age, please reevaluate your friendshuip with these people. A true friend will never do anything to hurt you, peace Jimmy
Reply:That's sounds horrible! Being made to sing is so stupid especialy if you don't want to! I have been in that same situation before, but I guess since you have to suck it up, relax, and sing your heart out, because you know you can do it and that's all that matters! Your a great singer, don't let anyone tell you diffrently. keep fulfilling ur dream. hope this helped! goodluck :))
Reply:Oh don't worry!!! You can do it!!!


My daughter is 14. Twin classmates are both interested in her. She likes one but not the other.?

It's a sticky situation. Any advice?

My daughter is 14. Twin classmates are both interested in her. She likes one but not the other.?
get outtas your kids business
Reply:isnt she to young
Reply:I was in this situation in high school..... I just stayed friends with both and didn't lead either on..... Eventually the one she likes and her will start to get closer or they will all just be good friends. With twins you just have to be careful she doesn't want to hurt their relationship.....
Reply:She needs to learn to develop her own social relationships. I agree that this is a very sticky situation, but life is filled with those. What better time to learn to practice than at her young age.





I've got a question for you: Is she asking for your advice as to what to do? If she is, I'd suggest that you tell her that she needs to have confidence in her own ability to make the best decisions for herself, but to be prepared for the natural consequences of her choices. If she is afraid of hurting one of their feelings, she might be able to do something extra special for the one she is not really interested in just to show that she values the friendship even if not the potential for a long-term relationship. However, she needs to be very clear to both what her true feelings are. Nothing is worse than receiving false affirmations only to find out about the fact later.





I wish you and her the best of luck.
Reply:Obviously the twins know that she can't date both of them equally. At least I hope they do! If they expect that, then she shouldn't see either of them!





I'd suggest talking to them both at the same time, and make sure they understand that she can only seriously date one of them. I am guessing that they know who she likes best, and hopefully the other one will just back off respectfully. If one of them gets jealous, then that's something that they'll have to sort out between themselves.
Reply:tell her to find something on the one she likes that makes him different from the other twin.





so this way, they dont pull the ol' switcheroo on her.
Reply:As a parent, are you comfortable with her seeing boys at 14?
Reply:which one has a better personality?
Reply:She's 14! Why is she (you too) worrying about boys at that age. I think you are sending her the wrong message at that age. Now, if she were older, I would say that she should make her own decision. Don't meddle. It is her business. However, now you should advise her to stick with books and not boys...
Reply:Really good question! I would just let it come naturally. Let them hang out together. If she likes on but not the other, whatever! Let them go out and hope that the other twin is understanding.
Reply:Tell her shes free to love one but not the other. I say forget the other twin!
Reply:Let her decide, it sucks when parents control who their kid loves.
Reply:She should be very sure which twin she is interested in, and ask him what the wisest course would be with his brother. It is a delicate situation, but usually twins are very close, and demonstrating that she respects the feelings of both twins will demonstrate her maturity.


How can I find my classmates in elementary back in the 70s?

I still know their full name

How can I find my classmates in elementary back in the 70s?
have you triend the friends reunited website iver heard its really good 4 finding old classmates!!
Reply:classmates.com

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Are childhood day friends or classmates, whom we wish to meet now,reliable ?

over the years, their behaviour may totally be changed now.but our mind is longing to meet them now in our life


But how far is it safe to contact them.Now they are actually strangers.Isnt it ?


i do agree that there may be good persons too .but how far it can be taken for granted

Are childhood day friends or classmates, whom we wish to meet now,reliable ?
YOU WILL FEEL PLEASURE TO SEE OLD FRIENDS
Reply:There will always be that bond but as you have pointed out, over the years they will have changed and developed different personalities and behave differently. Nothing wrong with that because you will have gone through the same thing yourself.





It is safe to contact them - sure it is. And no, they are not quite strangers.





You can look forward to building new and adult relationships based on good childhood foundations of one. If as a child you selected people to be your friend with the purest of thought and all that innocence, then you laid the foundation for a good friendship in later life. Go on, explore. You may find you guys get on better now.
Reply:if u hav spend long time with them earlier then u might to knw abt the person from the core .if u think he is good friend go %26amp;meet him. there might be some changes in his attitude or nature.
Reply:Is there any social or circumstantial reasons to renew the contacts with childhood friends or classmates? If yes, accept them as changed individuals and not as your childhood friends. You can easily assess them and decide about reliability, dependability etc. Please do not approach with a closed mind.
Reply:both of them because they two eye's of me
Reply:i agree with u.... they really become strangers..


to know about them we have to keep in touch with them


for few days to know their characters...its hard to


select a frnd after analysing him... but to be


safe in ur side u have to read every atitude of ur


frnd...
Reply:most ppl you meet up with again that you were in hs with or something....just want to talk to you to see if they're better off.
Reply:Humanly it is very difficult to judge a person, even if you move with those people any number of days either from childhood or on and off. It's all depends upon how we move with those people and what we give and what we get. If you are very lucky you may get good friends.Our old friends and classmates are always carry memorable things only, not only for you but also for others too. One thing I noticed from my age and experience that after sometime everybody changes and at the end of their life they become melow down a lot and you can also feel quite comfortable when we move with those people. You beleive me or not I met one of my friend a college mate without any contact with him after 42 years (I am 62 yrs. now) in a Super market in a foreign country. I could got him because his mannerism and he was quite shocked and spent his time with me till I return to my native country. Things are very strange. Hope you will also have the similar experience. Friendship is the only relation with minimum problem. All the best yours VRVRAO
Reply:we want both
Reply:Thats really a tough call pal. One really doesn't know how much you can rely on a person whom you have not met for years. Its only after you meet one, and be with them for sometime, you can take a decision.
Reply:bye


What is the percentage of classmates you will never see after graduation?

what's the statistic?

What is the percentage of classmates you will never see after graduation?
5 years after graduation you won't see over 50%


10 years 90%


20 years 99.9%
Reply:I'm not sure but i have seen about 10 people since i graduated in 05 and we had 99 people in my class
Reply:I don't think you can put a figure on it because there are many variables. For instance, if you live in a closely-knit small town in which everyone knows everyone else, you may see them quite often. If, though, you live in a big, anonymous city and attended a specialty school (as I did) and students came from far and wide and your class was huge, you will probably hardly ever see any of them.





If you take the two class reunions I attended out of the equation, I probably have only seen about 1 percent of my classmates. Heck, a lot of them I didn't even know (again, my class was BIG), and now many are spread all over the country.
Reply:i believe that there's no definite figure for it...


there are some aspect that one should consider...


like.....





what if after your graduation..you walk out of your campus and suddenly you died...


so you would never see any single person ^_^ hekhek
Reply:I would say close to 90%./


How or what to tell classmates about my disability.?

I am going to my 20yr High School reunion this summer. My disability is not readily seen unless I go and do certain things, but it has changed me. I did not have this at my 10yr. reunion.

How or what to tell classmates about my disability.?
I would just simply not do those certain things and only explain why you are not doing those things if asked. Drawing attention doesn't sound like something you want to do, especially if it is pity.





Go, enjoy, don't stress it, you will have fun and those that care about you will understand you have limitations now.
Reply:All of your former classmates have gotten older, too, so if it happens to come up, they probably won't be shocked. But I agree that you don't need to bring it up. Report It

Reply:Dont bother telling them unless your looking for their sympathy.
Reply:Just be yourself and have a good time. You'll probably find that they've all changed as well. If you happen to do something that makes the disability noticeable. Just start out by saying "In case you're wondering ....." to someone you happen to be with, or nearby. But you're not obligated to explain it to everyone. You'll be OK ... Have Fun : )
Reply::) OH Geez, mine is around the corner too they are always nerve racking. You know, I wouldn't worry about it. I know that when you go you want to impress people and look good, but don't worry about it. You will be surprised at how many people will respect you regardless and if they don't then that's their problem.


I know when traumatic changes take place in our lives it take a while to adjust. Perhaps your disability will not be as noticeable as you think. Just get out there and have a good time and don't worry about what others think. I trust that they will be mature adults which means that your disability will not matter to them and as I said if it does then they are idiots. :D





Two thumbs up to you and lots of luck!
Reply:My cousin my best buddy has schizophrenia, a hidden disability. He is always up front about his illness, he says it "weeds" out the losers. It does.


I have bipolar disorder, I have been really sick with it, manic and delusional. Been this way my whole life, always up front about it. I have kids, a wife, life is good.


Be proud where you are at.When you are living with a disability it is important to surround yourself with people that treat you like an adult and love you for who you are.


My advice, you will know who you are comfortable sharing with, if you do not feel like it don't. Small talk, thats what I stick to when I do not want to get personal.


good luck.
Reply:Please elaborate your problem. Do you want to know a way to tell this to your friends OR are you asking should you tell this to your friends? Are you uneasy telling this to others?
Reply:LOL don't go..
Reply:If you are feeling self consciouabout it then use an opportunity to write a report on it and explain your disability and how it came to be and what you are doing to make it function for you rather than let it cripple you. It's better to clear the air yourself rather than to have someone stupid start a rumor about it.
Reply:I would go and act just as confident as you were pre-disability. Your classmates should like you for who you really are. They also want to see how people have chagned. You've changed, yes, but you are still the same person. Your friends at the reunion came to see you; you can knowing who you are, and being yourself in spite of the adversity you have faced.


What future president's Texas classmates ran a shot of a donkey under his yearbook photo?

The possible choices are:





A. Lyndon Johnson


B. George H.W. Bush


C. George W. Bush


D. Jimmy Carter


E. Dwight Eisenhower





I did some searching and Johnson was the only one to go to school in Texas, although elder Bush did serve in the Navy in Corpus Christi. But I have not been able to find a direct answer. Can someone help me out?

What future president's Texas classmates ran a shot of a donkey under his yearbook photo?
No donkey, but here's a yearbook picture of a young George W. punching a rugby opponent in the face.





http://www.snopes.com/politics/bush/rugb...
Reply:A donkey? Or a monkey?





Bush's ears make me laugh.

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Trying to find my old classmates?

Hai i finished my schooling in Thiruninravur ....i dont remember the exact yr...it cld be 93-95....anybody who studied over there pl giv a reply.....i havn't furnishd the full details jus to avoid any unwanted entries... if u r the right person com with sum more details and i il also reply....Thank you.

Trying to find my old classmates?
U hv 3 options.


Type in the address bar http://profiles.yahoo.com/abcd where abcd is the user id. U will be able to find the person's profile available with yahoo.





http://members.yahoo.com


Please click the above link. There u will find "Find People" There u will find a search box. Click the arrow of the box, out of drop down menu selcet yahoo ID, enter the yahoo id in the search box , click Find People now. Yahoo will display the info about that person whatever has been provided to yahoo.


Third http://search.yahoo.com/search?ei=UTF-8%26amp;...


Please click the above link. It will also help u.
Reply:www.namesdatabase.com
Reply:http://www.batchmates.com/


http://namesdatabase.com/





http://namesdatabase.com/?c=25278833%26amp;h=4...
Reply:it may help if you go to classmates.com
Reply:try this .. http://alumni.net
Reply:how can you not remember what year you left school in?!?!?!


I am looking for a classmates obituary her name was Darcey R. Dobrindt of Meriden CT, USA?

Darcey Dorbrindt died somehow in 2005, I wish to read her obituary or any information you have on Darcey R. Dobrindt (born in 1969, graduated from Maloney High School, Meriden CT in 1987.

I am looking for a classmates obituary her name was Darcey R. Dobrindt of Meriden CT, USA?
I was not able to find an obituary for your classmate but here is some information you may find helpful:





According to RootsWeb (link included below), Darcy Dobrindt Pike (Scappini) was born in Meriden CT, April 11, 1969 and died June 17, 2005 (Age 36).





A marriage announcement for your classmate was published in the Meriden newspaper Record-Journal on April 7, 2002. To get the full announcement, you would need to go to the Record-Journal archives webpage and pay a small fee. Here is what was viewable at no cost:





Publish Date: April 7, 2002


Word Count: 123


Document ID: 10F551A338F2CDC5


Darcy and Walter Scappini Scappini - Dobrindt The wedding of Darcy Renee Dobrindt and Walter Scappini took place Sept. 7, 2001 at Roaring Brook Resort in Lake George, N.Y. The double-ring ceremony was performed by Judge James Cortland. The bride is the daughter of Howard and Nancy Dobrindt of Southington. The bridegroom is the son of Walter and Linda Scappini of Torrington and the late Rosemarie Scappini. The bride was attended by Chris LaVallee of Waterbury. Serving as best man...


I am looking for any classmates from Bayside high school in Va. Beach, Virgina class of 2002.?

My name is brandon for those who forgot or don't know who doing this so hit me up and let me know where you at and what you doing.

I am looking for any classmates from Bayside high school in Va. Beach, Virgina class of 2002.?
I would suggest you register at classmates.com


My dad got something called classmates.com and he doesnt want it anymore how do i get rid of it?

he signed up for it but he doesnt like it so he asked me to delete it for him but i dont know how so can you tell me how or send me a link to delete it _thanks

My dad got something called classmates.com and he doesnt want it anymore how do i get rid of it?
There should be a place on the website where you can remove your dad's information. The website may have customer support which can tell you what to do.
Reply:unsubscrib your account





e-mail me if you have any more questions beathey@yahoo.com
Reply:Go to your Control Panel and double click Add or Remove Programs. Then remove Classmates from the list of programs.
Reply:You need to sign in too the account an deactivate it from there.





The Syko Ward
Reply:you right click it and click delete or you click uninstall
Reply:If its been installed on your computer he has to go into "my computer",then " control panel".Click on add/remove and once it opens scroll down to where it is and click on it to be removed.


If its alot of crap email then he needs to go into his yahoo mail and then go into options and get into where it says "filters" and he can install a filter just by a name or phrase entered. Good luck

shark teeth

How can i find former classmates?

Try www.facebook.com





It is very popular nowadays and I heard that a lot of people have found old friends/schoolmates etc...

How can i find former classmates?
use myspace or classmates.com
Reply:I've found a large chunk of my classmates on Facebook. =]
Reply:myspace or classmates.com
Reply:RUN! FOREST! RUN!


Have you ever had your classmates laugh/make fun of you and then the teacher laughed at you too?

Not laughed with you but at you. I was just going through one of my old year books and I remembered when I was in 8th grade my gym teacher joined in the laughter with some of the other students who were laughing at the way I ran. That jerk.

Have you ever had your classmates laugh/make fun of you and then the teacher laughed at you too?
You know, that teacher sounds like a real loser, because he or she shouldv'e known better than to do that. Sounds like they were one of those people who do that because they need to be liked so much.





That total jerk.
Reply:My family used to change countries every few years because of my father's job and so I've been a newbie at a number of schools. I can't remember any specific situation but I know that I've been through that too and what I DO remember is feeling a sense of betrayal by the teacher who ought to have stood up for me.
Reply:Yes, in 6th grade. Playing baseball/softball-whatever it was called. I didn't see where the bases where, from second base-trying to find it I ran way back into the field.-- how embarrassing! Take care.
Reply:Yeah, when i farted. Haha, just kidding.











Just laugh along if that happens.
Reply:last year my chemistry teacher always laughed along with the class at my attempts to answer questions, but that was just because i was so bad at it haha and i didnt mind because it WAS pretty funny how crap i was
Reply:Hell yeah.





When I was about 9 Mum took me to the hairdresser and had him cut my hair short. One of the kids behind me kept leaning forward to pull the back of my hair - hard. I got in trouble because I turned around to tell him to stop it. When I told the teacher why I spoke he told me that I had no hair left to be pulled. The whole class laughed.
Reply:yes i've had a few teachers laugh at me.. i remeber when i was in 7th grade my math teacher made fun of me in front of the whole class for not being fast at math quizzes.. i never got over it.


sometimes i don't know who thought it would be a good idea to hire jerks like that everyone know that school is the most traumatic times in life and children are very vulnerable to emotional attacks on themselves
Reply:I'd laugh too if it was funny. That's never happened to me, but I definitely have it coming.
Reply:yes! and it is so embarassing...
Reply:Yes. And I've had the teacher laugh first and then the students follow.
Reply:Yes. Just ignore Don't let it bother you . NOT worse It.


Do your guy friends/peers/classmates open the door for you?

when you're like going to class around the same time? :)

Do your guy friends/peers/classmates open the door for you?
I take the non-homophobic approach and open the door for anyone that's near me. This is 2007 right?
Reply:My husband does
Reply:Yes they do, and I thank them warmly.


It isn't just something for a guy to do for a girl, though.


It's thoughtful and being thoughtful is for everyone.
Reply:no i open the door for them


Problems with father and male classmates growing up contributed to my homosexuality?

I'm bisexual, and for a while I thought I was just born this way. After all, the twin studies seem to be in favor of this theory. However.. this other theory makes sense too. My father has always been pretty critical of me and we don't have a great relationship. It's not horrible, but we dont get along alot of the time. Growing up, I was pretty feminine and the popular boys in my class would make fun of me. Do you think that my lack of acceptance from men and boys growing up has caused me to seek acceptance and love from them in a homosexual way now? It seems like it would make sense.

Problems with father and male classmates growing up contributed to my homosexuality?
I think this makes sense.... For me, I am bisexual female..... Growing up my parents had porn ALL over the house.... It was all naked woman all the time..... i learned to love the sight of a beautiful woman and appreciate her..... That combined with all my negative experiences with men, led me to realize that while sex with a man is nice, it really isn't a full time thing for me........ I also got very little exceptance from men, but the woman in my life were always loving and nurturing AND i was sexually abused by a woman...... SO, I don't buy the whole everyone who is gay was born gay thing... nature vrs nurture....... it is always a fight, but I think that we don't have to pick one.... you can have both..... some were born that way, and some were created..... i think that bisexuals are more likely created but who really knows... ........
Reply:No. You were born that way. You can't change it.
Reply:i doubt that this would make you aroused at a naked man's body. these theories don't apply to us all, sexuality is programmed into us at birth and is complex
Reply:No, sexuality is neither homo or hetero. Its just plain sexuality for humanities sake. All men and all women have desires for those of the same sex at one time or another. How its manifested is what determines what category we fall into. Most are pressured, socialy and thats what they feel comfortable doing. These desires are as powerful as they have for those of the opposite sex. You were expressing yourself long before they started making fun of you, isn't that the reason they did, You just made a choice that fits your life. Some choose to catagorize themselves and their sexuality. Hetero and homosexuals are as equality discreminating in their choices, that is to say they exclude base on a pre determined set of rules usualy having to do with the pipeing.. You have adopted a set of rules and standards to which you will not deviate from. Ask yourself why and you will answer your question. Me I choose physical and charateristic traits not so much the packages below. I enjoy being with careing, strong, healthy individuals with a zest for life and living and who want the same. Its simple for me. Do I exclude, yes but its more of an age thing. Mature adult persons who meet the above requirements. Fortunately I have met my sould mate. Its a women, but I was not looking for a women or a man, just a soul mate. I Its a scary philosophy to adopt because hell you might find someone who does not fit the social norms of those whom you run with, who the family disaproves but hopefully they understand. No one can make you do anything you really don't want to do.
Reply:It would cause you to perhaps seek acceptance, but it wouldn't cause you to be attracted to them physically. I can't imagine that theory contributing to physical attraction at all.





Plenty of men have daddy issues and most are not gay. There isn't a connection there, I assure you.
Reply:There's no telling, but consider this: when a lesbian has a lousy relationship with her father, social conservatives often blame her attraction to women on this problem. The same goes for gay men. It would seem to me that, following their logic, either the lesbian should have grown up with the desire to please men, or the gay man should have grown up with a desire to please women. The standard can't be applied to both gay men and lesbians, although it often is.





I know a lot of people who had horrible relationships with one or both of their parents, and I'd say only about 5-10% of them grew up to be gay...that follows the accepted national average for homosexuality. So while it isn't impossible to connect your childhood experience to your current romantic and sex life, I'd say it's a stretch to conclude it's the defining reason you grew up to be bisexual.
Reply:Maybe, but don't you think your feminie behaviour was an indication that you were aleready bi or gay?
Reply:It is possible. I have been doing a lot of research on this topic as I am very confused about MY sexuality.





From what i learned, there are two factors that create homosexuality... those who are born homosexual and those who have adapted to homosexuality.





Most gay men and women are born that way, their genes did not develop the same way as straight people. Whatever happens their orientation is already set at birth and will never change.





But another group, those who are either abused as children, without a father figure, segregated with boys only, etc have turned to homosexuality as a biological need.





It seems that some people are more prone in becoming gay because of different level of development in their genes, so while others turned out straight, there will be those who will turn out gay depending on their biological need.





Well... that's all for now. Good luck.
Reply:that is a Freudian way to look at it.

teeth whitening

I cant log on to classmates.com I am a member?

I can get the page up. when i click on the log on sign it freezes up

I cant log on to classmates.com I am a member?
The site might just be going slow it happens to me some times too.
Reply:Are you at a computer that may have had that site blocked like at a public library or computer lab?
Reply:Motion sickness or kinetosis is a condition in which a disagreement exists between visually perceived movement and the Vestibular system's sense of movement.


Does anyone know anything about Classmates?

It doesn't seem like my info is getting updated. It's the same number of profile visits and visitors names for two weeks, and not to brag but i'm pretty sure i would've had a visitor. it was steady for a while. yes. i paid my membership fee.

Does anyone know anything about Classmates?
I have used Classmates.com before and I found that sometimes I wouldn't get visitors to my section of the site for a while.





I would go ahead and check with tech support for the site any way to see if they have had any reports of errors going on with the site in relation to that.





I liked Classmates.com and hope to be part of it again real soon.


How do you teach your classmates?

I took an educational psychology class in college and for an assignment we had to teach the class a lesson- the point was that students learn when learning is fun and integrative- so some people put their lesson plan in a "who wants to be a millionaire" format, others used a point system for the most participation or answers right, etc. gets a prize... I guess it could work with any game show- jeopardy, family feud, etc.





The main point of the course was that different people learn so many different ways (8 according to Gardner*see below*) that you have to use different methods to be sure everyone is gettig something out of it

How do you teach your classmates?
To do what?
Reply:With skill.
Reply:let your teacher do his/her job, however you may help/assist your classmate do his/her lesson
Reply:With patience.U could learn more from teacing them.Ever heard of study groups?


I try to get on classmates web page and when i do I see a lock how do i get in?

ask your friend to give you Login Name and Password then you can visit his/her home page

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How can I get my classmates to stop treating me like a geek (and stop being so disrespectful to me)?

I'm sick of the way they treat me. They trip and kick me while I'm walking in the halls. They joke about me. They make fun of me, just because of the fact I work hard to get good grades.





I don't understand what I'm doing wrong. I have eight friends. I socialize. I don't keep my head in the books 24/7 (I still keep my eyes on my goal, though). I study. I answer questions in class. I've never talked trash about anyone. I dress in Baby Phat and South Pole. I try and say something back but they reverse it and make me look like a loser or a fool. I'm not good friends with the popular people because I don't like the way they treat others sometimes and when talking to them they fail to acknowledge me and/or see me as boring (I try to talk with them on TV shows, fashion, and hip hop.)





I don't understand why they're doing this to me and not doing this to the "normal people". Why is being smart and being nice so wrong?





I'm sick of it and I want to do something about it. Stand up to them

How can I get my classmates to stop treating me like a geek (and stop being so disrespectful to me)?
I used to be in a school just like that before, thank god, I moved. The only thing I did was exactly what most people say ignore them. Stick close to your friends and try to make new ones. As others have stated there jelous of the brains you have and that you never made the mistakes that they made and usually can't fix. Name calling I would once again just ignore, but when they start physically hurting you it should be reported. If its also in the class room see if you can get put in more advanced classes and it might help being with people of your intellectual level I wish I could do that, but its to late for me good luck and dont let those immature posers get you down and keep it up.
Reply:Sometimes, they are threatened by your intelligence and it is a "get you before they get them mentality" plus, by trying to humiliate you, they believe they pull any positive attention away from you.





Avoid them whenever you can. If you see them down the halls while chatting with your friends, blatantly make eye contact and laugh and smile as if nothing they do really affects you. Unfortunately, this whole culture in school has been going on since the beginning of time.





And never stop standing up for yourself. The more you act like you don't care, the less rewarding for them. I know you can't see what life is going to be like after high school--but trust me, you will be so far ahead of them all, it's going to be crazy. It's really fun to meet up with these people ten years later, they become really humble and pathetic.
Reply:VOTE BARACK OBAMA 2008


Does anyone else think that classmates.com is the DEVIL??

How many marriages have been destroyed because of 'reconnecting" with their old flames?? Just wondering what you all think.......

Does anyone else think that classmates.com is the DEVIL??
If that is all it took, those "marriages" were already ruined





They just did not know it
Reply:Oh, I find their follow-up emails reminding you to pay so you can enjoy all the features to be really annoying. I just haven't found the time to figure out what I need to do to go opt-out of that.
Reply:EEEP! guilty as charged.


i became terribly nostalgic and entered into some activities best left undescribed.


i no longer use their services and have sent their mail to my spam boxs for fear of further temptations.
Reply:People have been "reconnecting" long before classmates.com- reunions, local alumni clubs, fundraising, Christmas cards, phone books,- you name it. So no, that website is not the devil. The devil existed way before that website ever did.





And think of all the people who reconnect and say, "UGH... I am so glad I didn't marry him or her."


How many colleges are on classmates.com?

34000

How many colleges are on classmates.com?
34000 for radio trivia
Reply:34000
Reply:34000 is the correct answer for the radio quiz
Reply:34000 is the answer to the radio trivia


Can anyone tell me about Classmates.com?

If i do not pay for this service will people be able to read my email if i email them and will they be able to reply back to my email and will i be able to read their reply?Also what does it mean when they say that some signed my quest book?Did someone sign my guest book or just visit my profile?

Can anyone tell me about Classmates.com?
It is a social networking site for people who went to school together. The free service has limited access, including not being able to read any messages you receive ... and if I remember correctly, not being able to send any messages either.





I believe that guestbook signings and profile visits are two separate things. The premium service is a good deal, because you can greatly customize your profile and contact people.
Reply:You will have to pay to read %26amp; reply to e-mail messages from anyone at Classmates.com. Once I got a message saying that so %26amp; so sent me a e-mail;. I went to classmates to read it %26amp; then a box popped up saying that I would have to pay to read the message.

teeth grinding

Why do most of my classmates say that Santa doesn't exist?:(?

I know he does. My mom is Santa's best friend.That's how I know.

Why do most of my classmates say that Santa doesn't exist?:(?
santa does exist long long long ago but children now days dont believe because they did not see it with their own EYES!





well now days children are very naughty and disobedient. do you think santa would want to drop them a present?
Reply:Because Santa does not exist little buddy. : (
Reply:People believe different things. You believe what you want to believe and dont listen to your classmates.
Reply:Don't listen to your young peers ( friends ). Believe in what you want to believe.
Reply:santa doesnt exist, and when you receive christmas presents under the tree they are hand picked by your mom because she is the one who spent her hard earned money getting you those gifts because she wants you to be happy not some fat guy with a red bag coming down the chimney....
Reply:because some kids are mean and they know they are on the naughty list and not getting anything for christmas
Reply:Santa is real DAMN IT!!
Reply:santa exists in your heart sweetie. just close you eyes and make a wish
Reply:your mom is a lying s l u t. that is not santa it is the garbage man. those gifts are other peoples trash
Reply:Well, there you go then.
Reply:sorry buddy you are still stuck up to your early childhood religion grow up Santa does not exists. there are no historical proof or scientific proof that Santa and his buddy exists


How to get my former classmates or randomly met people to hang out with me?

As now is summer, the only chance for me to contact them is Facebook. Most people ignore my comments but they are not mean or pointless. Some answers to my post when I ask "how is summer going" or something like that. But when my comment suggest hanging out or something I get no response. From one I got message that he is super busy but had in head message that "he is ready to party!". I do not understand! Other than that to join club or fraternity next year, what I can do to improve my relationships?

How to get my former classmates or randomly met people to hang out with me?
Haha fb, yea that is the one thing that I'm on too often this summer. Find friends that you have things in common with. I started college last fall and throughout the year I met a lot of people. In the end, I ended up with two groups; one group were people in my dorm building that are also in my same program and the other group are chartering frats guys. Most of my friends hang out with each other a lot because they all live closer, so it sucks for me. But I encourage you to still keep in contact with them, yes even if it is only facebook. There's always aim too I guess. Keep talking to them and ask what things they are doing. Find things that you both enjoy and then suggest to do some of those things. (parties, sports, city, lunch, movies, amusement parks, etc. ) [ I'm sure that you can find some events for parties that your friends might go to.]


I've realized this year that one important thing in relationship is time. You need to invest time in them. But one thing about that is that you shouldnt spread yourself too thinly also. Just build on a couple of strong friendships.


About the frat thing, I know a lot of people join it for different reasons, and my friends are starting one, but overall, I would stick that as a last resort. Honestly, you need to do a lot of stuff to get in, plus pay a lot of money. It might not all be worth it.





But I hope this helps!
Reply:well dont take it personal. ready no party was speaking to the ladies. what happened during school you were suppose to ask for phone numbers. real friends communicate via the cell phone to set up hanging out. what about hanging out with the girls.
Reply:Well nobody wants to hang out with a stranger. Go to some parties and meet up some people. Then you could hang out with them later.
Reply:Try to find people that have similar interests as you. Joining clubs is probably the easiest way. If you are going to be starting your first year of college introduce yourself to everyone in your dorm in the first few days before everyone has already formed cliques.
Reply:You can make them Co-Owners or moderators of your Yahoo group and see what happens.
Reply:Wow, did u answer ur own question! I don't kn. but seems like the better I am to ppl. the more they take advantage of things so just be ur self and entertain ur self on the internet and fun things outside. Get a blog going and meet people on the internet.


How or what to tell classmates about my disability.?

I am going to my 20yr High School reunion this summer. My disability is not readily seen unless I go and do certain things, but it has changed me. I did not have this at my 10yr. reunion.

How or what to tell classmates about my disability.?
I would just simply not do those certain things and only explain why you are not doing those things if asked. Drawing attention doesn't sound like something you want to do, especially if it is pity.





Go, enjoy, don't stress it, you will have fun and those that care about you will understand you have limitations now.
Reply:All of your former classmates have gotten older, too, so if it happens to come up, they probably won't be shocked. But I agree that you don't need to bring it up. Report It

Reply:Dont bother telling them unless your looking for their sympathy.
Reply:Just be yourself and have a good time. You'll probably find that they've all changed as well. If you happen to do something that makes the disability noticeable. Just start out by saying "In case you're wondering ....." to someone you happen to be with, or nearby. But you're not obligated to explain it to everyone. You'll be OK ... Have Fun : )
Reply::) OH Geez, mine is around the corner too they are always nerve racking. You know, I wouldn't worry about it. I know that when you go you want to impress people and look good, but don't worry about it. You will be surprised at how many people will respect you regardless and if they don't then that's their problem.


I know when traumatic changes take place in our lives it take a while to adjust. Perhaps your disability will not be as noticeable as you think. Just get out there and have a good time and don't worry about what others think. I trust that they will be mature adults which means that your disability will not matter to them and as I said if it does then they are idiots. :D





Two thumbs up to you and lots of luck!
Reply:My cousin my best buddy has schizophrenia, a hidden disability. He is always up front about his illness, he says it "weeds" out the losers. It does.


I have bipolar disorder, I have been really sick with it, manic and delusional. Been this way my whole life, always up front about it. I have kids, a wife, life is good.


Be proud where you are at.When you are living with a disability it is important to surround yourself with people that treat you like an adult and love you for who you are.


My advice, you will know who you are comfortable sharing with, if you do not feel like it don't. Small talk, thats what I stick to when I do not want to get personal.


good luck.
Reply:Please elaborate your problem. Do you want to know a way to tell this to your friends OR are you asking should you tell this to your friends? Are you uneasy telling this to others?
Reply:LOL don't go..
Reply:If you are feeling self consciouabout it then use an opportunity to write a report on it and explain your disability and how it came to be and what you are doing to make it function for you rather than let it cripple you. It's better to clear the air yourself rather than to have someone stupid start a rumor about it.
Reply:I would go and act just as confident as you were pre-disability. Your classmates should like you for who you really are. They also want to see how people have chagned. You've changed, yes, but you are still the same person. Your friends at the reunion came to see you; you can knowing who you are, and being yourself in spite of the adversity you have faced.


What is the percentage of classmates you will never see after graduation?

what's the statistic?

What is the percentage of classmates you will never see after graduation?
I'm not sure but i have seen about 10 people since i graduated in 05 and we had 99 people in my class
Reply:i believe that there's no definite figure for it...


there are some aspect that one should consider...


like.....





what if after your graduation..you walk out of your campus and suddenly you died...


so you would never see any single person ^_^ hekhek
Reply:I would say close to 90%./
Reply:5 years after graduation you won't see over 50%


10 years 90%


20 years 99.9%
Reply:I don't think you can put a figure on it because there are many variables. For instance, if you live in a closely-knit small town in which everyone knows everyone else, you may see them quite often. If, though, you live in a big, anonymous city and attended a specialty school (as I did) and students came from far and wide and your class was huge, you will probably hardly ever see any of them.





If you take the two class reunions I attended out of the equation, I probably have only seen about 1 percent of my classmates. Heck, a lot of them I didn't even know (again, my class was BIG), and now many are spread all over the country.

teeth bleaching

Why can't i access classmates.com from home but i can at work? I paid for this site.?

ask you ISP if they blocking it?


visit http://www.the-cloak.com


than click start surfing


and enter your desired URL if the site is opening.(MOST PROBABLY this way you would be able to open the web site)


How can I cancel my classmates account?

I am not a fully membership but I would like to cancel and dont want receive any emails.

How can I cancel my classmates account?
you can put a block on their email, and don't send any more payments


How can I prove to classmates that I can be part of a group discussion, and part of the class dynamique?

I can communicate but I feel shy to actually cross the group when they are sitting together, I feel like I am forcing myself on them, so I can read their eyes and their face messages, and I know that I am not welcome or not invited and if I was they will ask me things that I don't like to answer.

How can I prove to classmates that I can be part of a group discussion, and part of the class dynamique?
You have to think positive. I found that most of the time, when i used to think about social situations like that, I was misreading what others were thinking and being too hard for myself. Seriously, start looking for the good in situations and ignore the negative thoughts. Eventually, the bad stuff will all fade away.


How can I locate old classmates without paying a fortune ?

I've actually found a lot of my old classmates on Myspace.com





Good luck!

How can I locate old classmates without paying a fortune ?
I used a very simple website called reuniondatabasebuilder.com. You basically provide the names and emails you have, and the service sends emails to these people. When these people receive the email they can in turn add additional email addresses. The process continues. Report It

Reply:Have you tried reunion.com or classmates.com?
Reply:Try Orkut.com
Reply:I found my old friends from England on www.bebo.com


It's free.
Reply:you can go to this web site called classmates.com and find your classmates
Reply:Social sites are the best way to catch hold of oldies...


orkut.com


hi5.com


friendsters.com


batchmates.com


myspace.com


etc are such social sites... register urself der and search with appropriate details for best results...


Good Luck
Reply:Write to your alumni association.
Reply:Try facebook.com it's free

Racing Shoes

Are childhood day friends or classmates, whom we wish to meet now,reliable ?

over the years, their behaviour may totally be changed now.but our mind is longing to meet them now in our life


But how far is it safe to contact them.Now they are actually strangers.Isnt it ?


i do agree that there may be good persons too .but how far it can be taken for granted

Are childhood day friends or classmates, whom we wish to meet now,reliable ?
YOU WILL FEEL PLEASURE TO SEE OLD FRIENDS
Reply:There will always be that bond but as you have pointed out, over the years they will have changed and developed different personalities and behave differently. Nothing wrong with that because you will have gone through the same thing yourself.





It is safe to contact them - sure it is. And no, they are not quite strangers.





You can look forward to building new and adult relationships based on good childhood foundations of one. If as a child you selected people to be your friend with the purest of thought and all that innocence, then you laid the foundation for a good friendship in later life. Go on, explore. You may find you guys get on better now.
Reply:if u hav spend long time with them earlier then u might to knw abt the person from the core .if u think he is good friend go %26amp;meet him. there might be some changes in his attitude or nature.
Reply:Is there any social or circumstantial reasons to renew the contacts with childhood friends or classmates? If yes, accept them as changed individuals and not as your childhood friends. You can easily assess them and decide about reliability, dependability etc. Please do not approach with a closed mind.
Reply:both of them because they two eye's of me
Reply:i agree with u.... they really become strangers..


to know about them we have to keep in touch with them


for few days to know their characters...its hard to


select a frnd after analysing him... but to be


safe in ur side u have to read every atitude of ur


frnd...
Reply:most ppl you meet up with again that you were in hs with or something....just want to talk to you to see if they're better off.
Reply:Humanly it is very difficult to judge a person, even if you move with those people any number of days either from childhood or on and off. It's all depends upon how we move with those people and what we give and what we get. If you are very lucky you may get good friends.Our old friends and classmates are always carry memorable things only, not only for you but also for others too. One thing I noticed from my age and experience that after sometime everybody changes and at the end of their life they become melow down a lot and you can also feel quite comfortable when we move with those people. You beleive me or not I met one of my friend a college mate without any contact with him after 42 years (I am 62 yrs. now) in a Super market in a foreign country. I could got him because his mannerism and he was quite shocked and spent his time with me till I return to my native country. Things are very strange. Hope you will also have the similar experience. Friendship is the only relation with minimum problem. All the best yours VRVRAO
Reply:we want both
Reply:Thats really a tough call pal. One really doesn't know how much you can rely on a person whom you have not met for years. Its only after you meet one, and be with them for sometime, you can take a decision.
Reply:bye


Witches and wiccans, if your classmates harassed and teased you because your a witch, what do you do?

Hey, I'm sorry to bother you all, but this problem has been going on for 3 years, when I was a freshman in high school. People teased me anyways, calling me nerd, or freak or little miss oreo(usually). But when I went to the bathroom, apparently I wasnt aware that some girl looked in my backpack, and Saw my books Teen Witch and Solitary Witch(Both Written by Silver Ravenwolf. I know she's not a good source, you don't have to tell me. I didn't know that back then) Anyways. When I got back into the classroom, some girl smeared a honey bun in my face. And the same girl who took the book, came up to me holding the book and ask me, "do you practice witchcraft?" The whole class stared at me, there's no point in lying to them so I said yes. Ever since then, I couldnt spend one day of school without being called, She's a witch, She works for the devil. Or hearing stupid rumors like she walks into the night and eat dogs and cats, she uses human body parts in her spells. I just want it to st

Witches and wiccans, if your classmates harassed and teased you because your a witch, what do you do?
This is more of a straight-up bullying problem and you should approach your guidance counselor or principal to handle it. They are legally bound to provide a safe and harassment-free learning environment for ALL students. Whether your parents agree with your beliefs or not, I'm sure they don't want you being harassed at school. Talk to them, tell them how bad it's become. As for the kids, treat them as you would any bully. Sometimes you have to stand up to a bully in order for them to stop. Other times, it's best to lay low and try to be low-key about things. If you hear someone talking about you or if they out and out ask you, tell them the truth of your beliefs -- explain that the rumors are being spread by narrow-minded and malicious people. However, at this point, it does sound like someone in authority needs to get involved.
Reply:i'm a christian, but i have respect for any other religion(as long as they dont worship satan or anything like that). and i respect yours too. tell these dickweeds to go fall on knives and to leave u alone. tell someone u know because no one deserves this and it violates rights and the constitution and a whole lotta other things too. i respect u and your beliefs. just hang in there and show them it doesnt bother u
Reply:Turn them all into frogs but ofcourse its a little difficult,


Stand up to yourself, punching one of them straight in the face would be a good warning for others :)
Reply:Telling the cops won't accomplish anything because no laws are being broken. Being a jerk isn't against the law. You should talk to the school. You have the right to attend school without being harassed.





On the other hand, one has to question your motivations for bringing the books to school to begin with, if you didn't want people to know. I think you should also examine your own behavior that might be reinforcing this. Minimally, you should ignore it. Everytime you respond, you just validate their accusations.
Reply:If you can not get results from the school administration, then the best thing to do is gut it out.





You have only one year left, and BELIEVE me - this sort of teasing just does not go on outside of school.





Even in college there isn't this sort of thing. Later, in the real world, it just doesn't matter who did what in highschool.





There will always be people that do not like you, and always there will be people that may gossip. But believe me, in the real world it just does not matter that much.





I know that is little consulation right now, but DO talk to your school administrators. If they do not help you, use the 'magic' words "I will sue you and I will call the papers for not protecting a minority religion!" But that will be a whole different ball of wax.





If you can not resolve it, remember that you are on short time now in HS and almost out of it!
Reply:im sorry that that happend(s) to u. i could just say cast a spell on em all, but then again maybe not. look, they're all just complete jerks anyway, so u needn't waste ur precious time on them. just ignore them, there are people who r better then them anyways, so, yea. however, if i were u, i'd enjoy scarin them a little, like giving them a major evil eye or something, scare em off. no use denying and/or hateing who u r cuz of some morons. hope this helped, if not, sorry.
Reply:Hey, look on the bright side your days of torment are nearly at an end. After graduating you can move on to be around better people at college and the likes. I had to deal with the same things all my time in high school but its been a year since i graduated and the whole mess was left behind when i moved.





Anyway my point is the school won't do much of anything, parents...yea...seems like the most logical thing to tell them ...but if your parents are like mine then....yea not a good idea. for you graduating and moving on seem all the more golden choice!





Blessed Be!
Reply:FIrst of all, you need to speak to the teacher as well as the principal for this harassment- which is illegal in most states. Tell your parents, and see if something can't be done about this. Being phyically assualted should be UNACCEPTABLE!


If you can't find help, then you're going to have to knock some heads. For some reasons, these sort of kids understand only a slap in the face. Yes, it might tick em off, but it will let them know you will HURT them if they don't back off.


Now, as for dealing with other students in regards to your religion. Age doesn't matter. I was teased when I was in my early 20's because of being a witch. Rumors of my sacrificing goats went around a jobplace I had. I never could find the instigator, but luckily a girl who knew my religion stuck up for me.


As I got older, I used humor to deal with. I use lines such as "I'd turn you into an *** if someone didn't beat me to it" or "Give me the good old days when we fed them to the lions". And I'm not above mentioning that its freedom of religion.


And lastly, bear in mind that you don't need to bring up your religion in most situations. Nor do you need to be ashamed of what you practice or belief. I find in most situations, its best to not bring up religion at all, but not to be embarassed or act ashamed of what you are either.


Maybe you could tell the kids "I'd need a virgin for the next rite, but everyone knows I can't use YOU" or better "I could use a virgin for the next full moon- are you free?"
Reply:I am not a witch or even do anything to do with that, but the ppl have nothing to do if they are just bullying you for no reason. They have no life. They take ppl like you that have an interest in something and see that they dont have anything like that and want to spoil it for you. I know what it feels like to be an outcast or feel like crap just to go to school. I hated it...that ppl would make me feel like crap for no reason. I always look for the positives. Like lunch break or after school. My last year in school was the easiest. Those ppl that always made fun of me didnt have an interest to do so once we was seniors. They had more interesting stuff to do. I dont know if it was the fact I just stop talking to everyone and they noticed they didnt have an affect on me anymore or what. Just hang in there and it will get better. Just dont let them knock you down. Make sure you get to do what you want to do and dont let them harass you into making you feel obligated to do something else. Bullies what you to do bad...because it makes them feel better about themselves.
Reply:hold your head high and smile. show them that the taunts don't get to you (even if they do). Once they see the taunts don't work, they will back off, but you'll still have the occassional jibe now and again (take that with a smile or counter-joke as well).





You can also approach the school board, and ask them to hold sensitivity training. When they balk at that, offer a compromise, for you to hand out information literature explaining religious discrimination issues. If they refuse that, let them know you are ready and willing to bring the ACLU into the picture.





I know it's a lot of effort, and standing up to officials is scarey, but it's worth it! You're not just standing up for your own freedoms, don't forget.
Reply:Tell them to get a life and ignore them. You have a right to worship and read what you like. Those that do that are petty jealous and uneducated! As for Silver Ravenwolf, she is a good source for her part of the path. Don't forget there are many paths in Wicca as well as Witchcraft and Paganism. You can find good information even from her!





Blessed Be!





Rev. Kaldea
Reply:Harassment is harassment. No one has the right to harass someone. I would talk to your counselor, vice principle or even principle about this harassment. No one should have to constantly look over their shoulder while going to school. A person should be able to feel safe and secure wherever they are...ESPECIALLY at school. I would tell someone of this harassment. No one can harass you about your race, religion, sexual orientation, or whatever. You have the freedom to believe what you want, same as they have the right to believe what they want.





Oh, and if they come up to you and call you a witch, say "you say that like it's a bad thing", "So?...Your point??", or "thank you."





(p.s. sorry for saying harass so much, don't have my thesaurus with me)
Reply:First of all they should fear you, i find it surprizing that they think they can get away with teasing you, first rule of conduct never p off a witch! there are many ways you can combat this . a balance spell to keep harmony, a reversal to return the teasing to them etc email me.This is something you can have a lot of fun with, man are they going to be sorry lol cackle ,cackle.
Reply:When I was in high school in the early mid 80's many of my friends and students new I was "a little different". I didn't dress like a Dead head or Goth (wasn't truely popular style then) or heavy metalish, I was more like a Hippie I guess. I always knew more about history and anthropology than my teachers did and they would come to me for info. Back then the Fudementalists and the big Christian movement wasn't at it's height just yet (but it was on it's way - thank the Goddess I lived in Southern Indiana back then and not in the bible belt I live in now!) Indiana and Kentucky - then - was the place to be if you studied Paganism of any sect. (outside of California). I am sorry they treat you as they do but maybe you should ask your History teacher about teaching a history on Paganism and the truth, myths, and it's progression from the Spanish inquisition to Modern day. Best to do this after Holloween, you know the Christians and the sheeple of the world. Make your English paper about the history of Paganism and anyone calls you a "Witch" tell them you are a


Fundamental Pagan of the Church of Gaia and watch them scratch their heads on that one. Then change it again and again until they quit asking and they'll think you are doing it for the shock value or they'll get tired of the game. It worked for me, but most of the people I went to school with wanted to know more about Paganism and Anthropology of cultural beliefs than take the Bible as the answer to all the questions in the world.


I have starred your question so some of my Wiccan, Pagan, and athiest friends can see it and may be able to give you better advice.


Blessed be and Peace


Eclectic Pagan


(Glad you realized that Ravenwolf is not a good reference - try Cunningham, Buckland, and Lust for starters)
Reply:I find myself in agreement with Lisa W. It is never a bad idea to learn about other paths, and perhaps even incorporate some of their philosophies into your own. By now you know there is no hard'-fast rule as to what a witch believes and practices. Before I chose witchcraft as my primary belief I was deeply into Tao Buddhism. They work quite well together. If people ask then you should tell them that unlike them you are trying t broaden your understanding and don't want to remain ignorant......like them. As a well known philosopher once said "the mind is like a parachute, works best when open" Keep yours open and keep in mind that you will only have to deal with these jackasses a little longer. Maturity comes slowly to some, if it ever comes at all


BB


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Reply:Maybe she was laughing at the Silver Ravenwolf books. I certainly did.





Seriously, they just tease you because they don't understand you. Tell them that if they believe that you actually worship their devil, eat dogs and cats, and use human body parts in your spells, then they are idiots. Tell them to get some info on the subject. Also, force them to prove what they're saying. And when they can't prove it, laugh in their ignorant faces.





Don't let their ignorance and intolerance change who you are.
Reply:I would wonder why you had those books out in class unless it was a study hall or some other reading period. There isn't much you can do if you have talked to your parents and teachers unless you're planning on going to the police and filing charges of harassment. I don't see that happening though since you apparently don't want your parents to know. Please try to remember that you will be out of school before much longer and this kind of thing will end.
Reply:You said that this problem has been going on for 3 years since you were a freshman, so I guess you are in the last year of high school now. All I can say is that your days in school are almost over and you will soon be free to believe in whatever you want without being a victim of bullying. You must keep having a positive view on your future or else you won't survive. SCHOOLS SUCKS BUT NOTHING LASTS FOREVER.
Reply:I see. This is a problem. I have to deal with this and other similar issues. The main reason harassment like this is effective and continues is because the perps see how it affects you. The NATURAL response is to pull away into a shell and try to avoid the whole thing. You just want to be invisible. This NEVER works!!!





I am going to recommend something to you, which is a technique I read about in a book called "How to Get Anyone to Do Anything" by Dr. Joseph Lieberman. It is also utilized by the US Army's Special Operations Command in Psychological Operations. And it is the OPPOSITE of what we naturally feel like doing in these situations.





OK! The cat is out of the bag! EVERYONE knows you practice witchcraft! Why do they make fun and harass you? Fear, lack of knowledge, and insensitivity. So what can you do?





PLAY ON THEIR EMOTIONS!!! It is called The Flip. When they accuse of worshiping the devil, instead of denying it, say something like, "That's right and he and I have had a long talk about you!" When they accuse you of using human body parts in your rituals say, "Only the parts I do not eat!"





This is how it works: When they accuse you of something, Claim to do something even worse! Something so outlandish that NO ONE can believe it! If you ever saw the movie, PRACTICAL MAGIC, the investigator asks Sandra Bullick if she or her siter killed the bad guy. She said, Oh yeah! A couple of times!" She actually did not lie, but it was so fantastic that it was totally unbelievable.





I have used this technique MANY times with great success. However, it requires that you think about the past things that people have said and accused you of and then pre-planning responses.





Good Luck!
Reply:Get some books on Buddhism, Taoism, Book of Mormon, etc. Allow people to see them They are going to talk. When they mention it, simply say that you are looking for your path. A little clue in Buddhism, you are not to say anything about it unless someone asks three times. You are not denying your beliefs, just broadening your horizons. People are afraid of what they don't know.....perhaps you should tell your counselor bullying is against the law in many states.


If I have already checked classmates.com, then what do I do to find a friens e-mail address?

http://www.zabasearch.com/


http://www.emailaddresses.com/


http://in.members.yahoo.com/interests/co...


http://spaces.live.com/


http://www.anywho.com/


http://www.addresses.com/


http://find.intelious.com/


http://people.yahoo.com/


http://www.freeprf.com/


http://www.reunitetonight.com/


http://family.public-records.com/......


http://www.192.com/


http://in.members.yahoo.com/regional/cou...


http://www.b4usearch.com/


http://www.peoplefinders.com/

If I have already checked classmates.com, then what do I do to find a friens e-mail address?
These links will help you:(my links copied again)





http://people.yahoo.com/


http://www.freeprf.com/


http://www.reunitetonight.com/index-brow...


http://family.public-records.com/


http://www.192.com/


http://in.members.yahoo.com/


http://www.b4usearch.com/


http://www.peoplefinders.com/


http://www.zabasearch.com/


http://www.emailaddresses.com/


http://in.members.yahoo.com/nosuchtc.htm...


http://spaces.live.com/


http://www.anywho.com/





http://www.addresses.com/


(White and yellow pages)





http://www.theultimates.com/white/


(this is the ultimate white pages)





http://find.intelious.com/





http://classmates.com/


(This is brilliant for finding old school friends).





http://in.members.yahoo.com/Regional/Cou...


(This will help you find indian members of the yahoo directory)
Reply:These links will help you:





http://people.yahoo.com/


http://www.freeprf.com/


http://www.reunitetonight.com/index-brow...


http://family.public-records.com/


http://www.192.com/


http://in.members.yahoo.com/


http://www.b4usearch.com/


http://www.peoplefinders.com/


http://www.zabasearch.com/


http://www.emailaddresses.com/


http://in.members.yahoo.com/nosuchtc.htm...


http://spaces.live.com/


http://www.anywho.com/





http://www.addresses.com/


(White and yellow pages)





http://www.theultimates.com/white/


(this is the ultimate white pages)





http://find.intelious.com/





http://classmates.com/


(This is brilliant for finding old school friends).





http://in.members.yahoo.com/Regional/Cou...


(This will help you find indian members of the yahoo directory)


Why is it that my classmates say that I and my bestfriend have a relationship?

They are always asking me if we are boyfriends. But no it's not. We're just best friends. Why do people always think that when two men are close to each other they have an intimate relationship? I mean as a couple.

Why is it that my classmates say that I and my bestfriend have a relationship?
mmm.. dont listen to such people ...they just feel jelous of ur close friendship... they r silly people who only want to open a subject and talk bout it all the time...so dont lsn to them and keep on ur friendship...but maybe just bcoz u dont have a gf thats y they say that i donno give more details...but still it doesnt matter and dont lsn to such low people !
Reply:I think society is gearing toward saying that guys can't have close relationships with other guys unless they are a "couple." With the big push toward "couple" in recent years, that's all it takes for some immature kids to look for something to "pick on." If not that, they'll find something else. Ride it out and ignore them. Having a good best friendship is healthy and there are many guys who go through life never knowing that. Hold onto that as long as you can ... it may be a lifetime friendship that with weather marraige, parenting, grandparenting, career, and old age stuff. Ignore the jealous, immature ones who are trying to make something of it that it's not.
Reply:well hunny if u and this friend of urs are always hanging out and spending time and not really interacting with others and pulled away from others in the social world then yeah ppl are gonna start wondering. if and this friend are too close then yeah rumors are gonna start!





but ur the one with the friend not them and u know the truth so what difference does it make what they think!

teeth cleaning

Im a latebloomer than my classmates...what should i do?

im 14

Im a latebloomer than my classmates...what should i do?
Someone has to be the shortest guy, or the heaviest guy, or the first with a mustasche, or whatever. Someone has to be the latest bloome - it could have been anyone, it turned out to be you. You have lots of time ahead of you. Talk to your doctor. [S]he can make really sure there's no problem, and can talk to you about normal variation.





And imagine, it could have been some poor slob who'd get all freaked out and suicidal about it. Yeah, it sucks, but you seem to be taking it a whole lot better than that other guy would have. There's nothing good about it for you, but better you with your head screwed on right than some other silly twit who'd just have a meltdown.
Reply:there is nothing you can do. your body will start when it is ready. i was a late bloomer also. i didnt start till 16. if u have any questions email me at teendude2005@yahoo.com.
Reply:you cant rush things... life has its own design in every person... just wait, maybe you will be more 'mature' when you hit puberty than your classmate... okay?
Reply:wait a few years.. if things don't work out then you can always see a doctor to get any treatment if needed...
Reply:just wait for it
Reply:your still young. you'll catch up. don't worry!
Reply:i am too, i only have 3 lil pit hairs and my penis is smaller than my friends, i think. We shared but i think they lied lol its koo ur not alone, im same age too