New classmates?

i know that this sounds stupid, but i really need some help.


you see, in my school everytime a new year starts the students will be put on different classes, so they will only see 5 or 6 students from their classes before, and the rest is a whole new different students from other classes' last year.





i'm really sad because there aren't a single of my 8 bestfriends in my class last year that is in my new class this year. and i'm not really fond of the students that will be in my new class. plus, there will be a popular and mean girls gang in my class. the girls are really really popular and as i mentioned, mean.





so i'm afraid that i won't be able to make new friends and i'm scared that i'll be alone. i'm scared that people will see me as a dork cause i'm alone. right now i'm on my holiday and 2 days from now i'll be back to school. so..what to do? please help me? thank you very much, i'm really really worried right now, so..i need some suggestions and words to make me feel better.

New classmates?
Just be nice to them and don't try too hard to get them to be your friend. And if they're nasty to you, think of it this way: in 10 years they'll be fat and working dead end jobs.
Reply:if you get problems with the other kids kick their *** if it gets serious but you can never forget your old friends i don't want to lose mine neither i used to be a loner in elementary school cause i didnt know how to make friends.even though peeps other than my buds thought i was inecent and a dork i was actually the oppeset.








dont fret to much you can still be around your friends afterschool and possibly lunch.


i'm going through the same thing i started as a fish at fox tech now i'm going from city to country now and i'll be alone.But you still got your buds at the same school as u witch is good!!!





excuse my spelling errors!!! GOOD LUCK HANG IN THERE I'LL CHEER YOU ON TO MAKE IT THROUGH!!!!!!
Reply:be yourself and you will find someone just like u.
Reply:just be true to yourself and you will make some friends that wll be worthy. Who cares if you are a dork. These "popular" girls will be no where in your life when you grow up. Discover who you are and then making friends will be no issue.
Reply:You dont have to worry for this at all mabybe u will realise later tht some of thm in ur present class are much better friends.You just speak with everyone normally and that will do.


You know something ive changed school this year for my 11th i studied in a girls school b4 and this is a coed school.its only one month since school reopened and im having many friends.And fouzan%26lt;a boy%26gt; has become my best friend .


So there is no need for u to worry about this just be urself u will get friends....................................


Infact ur in the same school but think about me i think that i will be a living example for u in this problem


so dont worry at all


keep rockinggggggggggggggggg
Reply:Don't worry about it, before you know it you will be 30 years old with a job and a few kids....the whole no friends in your middle school class will seem very very insignificant...and thats because it is...
Reply:Dear Ravin,


Your fears are very real and also very common as well as expected when we go to a new class.


Please pay attention to what I am going to say to you from all my experiences of meeting new students.


WE MAKE NEW FRIENDS AND THIS IS HOW:





The old friends are comfortable because we know all about them and we have ironed out the wrinkles between them and us. Therefore, when we meet them we exchange some ideas which we have already tried and found very comfortable to us and them.





When we meet new persons in a new class, please remember that these students are also our potential friends and may be they would be better than our old ones.





Once we come to know them and know their ideas, we might find a lot in common with them and a feeling of love starts in our new friendship. This is when we feel very comfortable again.





To start a friendship we should find out what are the likes and the dislikes of these persons.


When we talk about the subjects that they like, they will find us very interesting and this is a start of our friendship.


A time comes when they return love and comradeship by liking our interests.


Now you have new friends.





Ask all kinds of questions what they like and what they do not like and learn about those facts through the Internet and these new friends will love you for that.





There will be some students who will find you very interesting and will want to be your friends. Encourage them with all your heart.





Now you said about the tough and hard minded girls called the mean girls who can be very scary.


Ravin, rich or poor, mean or good hearted, every one needs a friend who can be reliable, honest and caring and I want you to be that person for all people in your class.


Every person needs some one to love and care for them and you seem to be that person.





The last thing I am going to say to you is that when we are looking for good friendship, we should be above the pride of our ego. Look up in the Internet and let me know what you think about it. More humble and less complicated a person you are, more friends you will have in this world.





Now when you have found some good friends, I would like you to do some thing else. Look for a student who is very shy and sacred to seek out new friends. Please help such a person as I am helping you.


May the God bless you for your humility and sincerity.


There was a man like that about 2007 years ago who was the most humble and sincere than any one who had lived before. And half the people of the world adore him to day.


Can you find out who was that man in this world?





Last and the most important of all: always smile while you are talking to some one and have a momentary contact with their eyes.





Ramesh1938.
Reply:just hang in there... i believe you can go through all this...


try to make friends slowly with the ones that you think can accept you sincerely. it will help you to gradually make yourself comfortable in the classroom... and GOOD LUCK! =)
Reply:whoa..u start school early..but u'll be surprised who u'll make friends with..i go to a school where basically everyone is rich..and i thought they were all mean girls..and they arent once you get to know them..some of the girls i didnt like and didnt have classes with my freshman year in school turned out to be some of my best friends the next year..so..u should try to make new friends..but dont try too hard to please a certain group..you'll just get on everyone's nerves..just act cool and be yourself..but dont forget ur old friends..