Having problem with daughters classmates parents?

I have tried discussing the problem with the children's mother, she is hateful, mean and rude. She refuses to acknowledge that this harassment is an issue. She said kids will be kids. I have tried to get her to help resolve this, we both live on same block. She vehemently refuses to do anything, no matter how vicious and mean her child is being. I've had damage to my vehicle since this has happened, I can't prove it, but it's to coincidental. She states she wants an apologize because my daughter was over heard telling the teacher that her daughter is harassing her at home and school. The reason why she wants the apology is because I can't prove it is her daughter. Even when I have proof of something she ignores it. This is wearing me out. Is there any way to deal with this woman, I've tried dealing with her husband also, I don't get anywhere he just says "yeah" "Whatever". They stand out in the street in front of my house to bad mouth her, myself %26amp; husband. Kids are 10 yrs

Having problem with daughters classmates parents?
I don't know what this other girl is doing to your daughter, but I think you should talk to the school's principal and maybe it would be good to talk to a lawyer about this, what I do strongly suggest is that you stop talking to this family. Make sure that your daughter is confident in herself, that she's sure of what a wonderful girl she is, of how beautiful and strong she is, so she can learn how to deal with this situation. Even if you can't prove any of it, a mothers intuition is stronger than any evidence.


Have faith and be strong!!!!!!!!!!!
Reply:Call the principal of the school. Explain to them what is going on. Then file a report with the police. Anytime anything at all happens file a report. Even if it is an egging file a report. Doing this creates documentation of this. Also, explain to the police what is going on. Then talk to your neighbors explain to them what is going on too. They will keep more of an eye out and will help put these people in place.
Reply:talk to your childs principal and also the local police this type of harrament can really be harmful to your childs mental health
Reply:I am not sure whether I can help you, yet I sure can empathize with you. When my eldest son was in the 2nd or 3rd grade, we had this bully on our apt complex, his mother had no idea what was going on, becasue she drank alot and was most likely passed out on the couch as usual. Now this kid was around 12 or 13 yrs old. This one day he and my son got into a fight, my son kicked him in the throat and left a mark, there were witnesses; one of them called the cops and told the officer who came that I was the one who kicked the boy in the throat. My son tried telling the cop it was him who did it and he just told him that he didn't have to lie for his mother. Anyways I got arrested for kicking the kid in the throat, I was about 20 ft away, but since those so-called lying witnesses said I did, the cops believed them. I just hope you don't get into the same mess. That woman sounds like she's looking for trouble. Do what you can do and I know schools are very understanding, except my son and he didn't go to the same school.
Reply:All I can say is you poor things, that is disgusting behaviour for parents to be teaching their child, no wonder their child behaves the way she does.


I agree with everyone else, go to the school and talk to the principal and contact your local police, don't even bother talking to them anymore by the sounds of it it is falling on death ears anyway.


Hope that you sort this out soon = )
Reply:I would recommend talking to your daughter's teacher. She/he can set up a conference with you and your husband as well as the other child's parents and the five of you can discuss the situation. Often the school principal will also attend these conferences.





If your daughter is being physically injured/attacked and the conference is ineffective, call the police. Maybe if they popped in on the parents to have a chat about restraining orders it would put things into perspective.





Some parents are just strange and they can't see the harm their child is causing. When I was 5 there was a boy in my class who always wanted to kiss me! He would knock me down and pin me to the ground and force kisses on me at recess. My mom and his mom had a conference with the teacher to discuss the boy's behavior. Instead of apologizing to my mother, the woman asked "well, what if he only kisses her one day a week?" lol

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