My so called friend and classmates keep telling guys and girls i used to be a man?

hi im a 16 yr old girl in high school. it seems to me the females in my school really hate me and don't want me to be happy. this asian girl started a rumor of me being born a guy and having my thing cut off and now i'm a girl. every time i look nice and guys talk to me and compliment me, some stupid female in the class tells him a used to be a guy and now i just want to cry because everyone is looking at me. i cant even have a guy i can talk to because they call me a guy. and they even told the teachers! my friend always tells cute boys im a guy whenever they they try to get me or be nice to me. it's so bitchy. these girls jealous me to the extent that they steal my stuff. what should i do?.and one of my so called friends from church who is a radical christian girl hates me because guys look at me all the time and she started rumors of kissing her boyfriend and being a whore.is this real christianity? or just plain stupidity?

My so called friend and classmates keep telling guys and girls i used to be a man?
wow, thats a really tough situation. i feel really sorry, and i know that YOUR the one who is telling the truth.


it may sound kiddish, but i really think you should tell someone, like a councelor this. they would understand, and give you a good solution.


DO NOT make up a rumor about that wide-eyed, flat-nosed, yellow-faced asain girl. it will just make things worse.


i hope this helps!


good luck!
Reply:Its jealousy. They are not your friends if they started these rumors.
Reply:If anyone is treating you this way, they arent your friends. First off, they are jealous of you. Second, F*CK them!!! Stand up for yourself, and b*tch them out. If you bite back, they will go running.





Good Luck!!!
Reply:Well I'm a guy so I never noticed the cattyness that went on between girls until I went to a ghetto school and noticed how mean girls are to each other.It's jealousy,don't worry about.Just the other day this girl was jealous because her crush was flirting with this other girl and she told everyone to stay away from her because she had a herpie on her lip and aids.The girl was crying on the day of the Fcat(standardize test in my state).Anyways,if these girls are talking about you you must be doing something right because all the guys are talking to you and not them.Most of the times us boys don't believe nor worry about the rumors that are spread about the girls.If we you want to hook up with the girl you'll get her.But I must say I'm gay so I don't have to worry about getting the girl but,I am a guy and I know what we want.
Reply:anyone that started these rumors aren't your friends. i ask ppl that call you a man how they know if i was born a man.
Reply:Stupidity, hun, and they're not your friends at all...





For one, male-to-female transsexuals do not have their "thing cut off", so if you hear them say that or hear someone ask about it, you can simply smile and say "Shows how much they know". Because obviously, they are stupid and know NOTHING about people with real gender issues and operations...





Secondly, please remember you have NOTHING to prove. Don't do anything idiotic like taking pictures or whatever to "prove" you're a girl. Keep your chin up; eventually they'll stop being stupid, if you try not to let it get to you and keep on being a happy person.





And lastly... TELL someone! Complain to a teacher, the principal, or to the superintendent. Tell them that the rumors are affecting your school life, and that the girls have been stealing from you... that's theft, by the way, and is illegal... and that you want it to stop.





Try to stay strong, and remember to smile. Stay safe, be honest and try to be happy... You'll make it.





Good luck!
Reply:They're jealous and not your real friends. I went through something very similar in middle school. I got teased a lot and stuff, but I had this necklas that was awesome. It was a muchroom necklass and very special to me being that it was a gift from my dad, well, one day in gym, while I was in class, a girl stole it from my locker and gave it to her friend. They both were hated very badly by me mainly because of all the teasing they put me through. But there was nothing I could do. Sometimes you just have to ignor them and hold your head up high. You knwo the truth so don't let their insecurities become you own. You're beautiful, talented and too good for any of them. Forget them and move on. :)
Reply:Ugh this sounds horrible! I can't believe how cruel teenage children can be. The important thing you need to do (and possibly the only thing you can do) is to remain confident. When they lie and say that you were once a man just say, "Yeah. I actually used to be a pretty hot guy." Just get even with them and play around with their minds.. They will be so thrown from a loop they won't know what to say...





Most importantly you just need to keep your self-confidence up. Don't let them make you hate yourself or your life... They obviously are the ones with the problems. You know you are a female so just ignore them! You are better then them:]





be strong.
Reply:It's jealousy AND stupidity. Friends don't make up rumors like that about each other. If a guy just listens to stupid teenage girls, then they're not worth it. Don't just take this kind of abuse from your friends. Stand up for yourself!!
Reply:Grl honey i swear to God if these *********-E-S be starting **** about u they sure as hell aint yo f-u-c-k-i-n-g friends ant they r just f-u-c-k-e-n jealous and u noe wat if all the people in ur school believe that rumer then they are all dumb asses and u shouldt care for f-u-c-k-e-r-s like that!!!!
Reply:This is jealousy, plain and simple. High schoolers can be especially cruel to one another. People will treat you badly only if you let them, and remember, the reason they do it is because they want to be just like you. Run with the best, and ignore the rest.





Easier said than done, but in a few years none of these people will mean anything to you. Hang in there and good luck.
Reply:It seems to me that your girl friends all seem to be green with envy!!!! you must really be a pretty girl so that your friends would go to all the trouble to spread so many nasty rumors about you!!! they are very jealous of your effect on guys!!!!! first of all confront those girls and give them a piece of your mind tell them that if they don't stop making up stuff about you that you will spread nasty rumors about them!!!!!! AND DO IT!! they have no right to ruin your reputation!!!!! and don't consider them friends either!!! find people who really care about you to hang out with!!!
Reply:its sounds to me that you are dealing with a whole lot of dumb chicks. to solve the problem with you being a guy, just bring a baby picture of you to school and show the hots guy in class the picture. bring a couple of them. i know that will stop that rumor. and the silly girl at church just tell her that your going to pray for her.