How to get my former classmates or randomly met people to hang out with me?

As now is summer, the only chance for me to contact them is Facebook. Most people ignore my comments but they are not mean or pointless. Some answers to my post when I ask "how is summer going" or something like that. But when my comment suggest hanging out or something I get no response. From one I got message that he is super busy but had in head message that "he is ready to party!". I do not understand! Other than that to join club or fraternity next year, what I can do to improve my relationships?

How to get my former classmates or randomly met people to hang out with me?
Haha fb, yea that is the one thing that I'm on too often this summer. Find friends that you have things in common with. I started college last fall and throughout the year I met a lot of people. In the end, I ended up with two groups; one group were people in my dorm building that are also in my same program and the other group are chartering frats guys. Most of my friends hang out with each other a lot because they all live closer, so it sucks for me. But I encourage you to still keep in contact with them, yes even if it is only facebook. There's always aim too I guess. Keep talking to them and ask what things they are doing. Find things that you both enjoy and then suggest to do some of those things. (parties, sports, city, lunch, movies, amusement parks, etc. ) [ I'm sure that you can find some events for parties that your friends might go to.]


I've realized this year that one important thing in relationship is time. You need to invest time in them. But one thing about that is that you shouldnt spread yourself too thinly also. Just build on a couple of strong friendships.


About the frat thing, I know a lot of people join it for different reasons, and my friends are starting one, but overall, I would stick that as a last resort. Honestly, you need to do a lot of stuff to get in, plus pay a lot of money. It might not all be worth it.





But I hope this helps!
Reply:well dont take it personal. ready no party was speaking to the ladies. what happened during school you were suppose to ask for phone numbers. real friends communicate via the cell phone to set up hanging out. what about hanging out with the girls.
Reply:Well nobody wants to hang out with a stranger. Go to some parties and meet up some people. Then you could hang out with them later.
Reply:Try to find people that have similar interests as you. Joining clubs is probably the easiest way. If you are going to be starting your first year of college introduce yourself to everyone in your dorm in the first few days before everyone has already formed cliques.
Reply:You can make them Co-Owners or moderators of your Yahoo group and see what happens.
Reply:Wow, did u answer ur own question! I don't kn. but seems like the better I am to ppl. the more they take advantage of things so just be ur self and entertain ur self on the internet and fun things outside. Get a blog going and meet people on the internet.