Thursday, August 19, 2010

I hate most of my classmates! What should I do?

Put them into the proper perspective. You're not obligated to like any of them, you're just joined together by a common circumstance: achieving an education, an equation in which some friendships could develop, but it's not a guarantee. I'm mostly bothered by your usage of the term "hate" to describe your feelings for most of them...if they're not people you can identify with, then maintain an emotional distance from them. But to devolve into outright "hate" is a stretch reserved for the most contemptible of circumstances, which hopefully doesn't apply here. Hatred will cause you to hurt others and yourself in the process: it's like burning down your own house to get rid of a rat, so deal with those issues as quickly and in as straightforward a manner as you can. If you can't lessen the intensity of those feelings on your own, find a trusted adult or authority figure to discuss them with, for no good will come of it otherwise. Good luck.

I hate most of my classmates! What should I do?
Haha. I feel you there. I'm in a class of 35. If you don't like someone, you officially don't like about a third of your class. Just find one person you can relate to. Me and my BFF bothhate alot of our class. So it's good to have someone who understands to vent to. But try to get along w/ people and never close the door to friendship.
Reply:ignore them(as they are not in class)
Reply:Ignore them. Just hang out with your real friends. Highschool goes by so fast. Just enjoy it.
Reply:threaten to fight them, but only if u look stronger than them. or u could pretend to be their friends, or ignore them
Reply:2 words, IGNORE them. If you hate them then don't go around by them.











Good Luck! :)
Reply:i'd say try and ignore them and just talk talk to them. i actually hate all my classes and the people in my classes this year. so i dont really talk to anyone except lunch (luckily theres a girl that i know so i talk her)


good luck! :)

teeth

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