Are childhood day friends or classmates, whom we wish to meet now,reliable ?

over the years, their behaviour may totally be changed now.but our mind is longing to meet them now in our life


But how far is it safe to contact them.Now they are actually strangers.Isnt it ?


i do agree that there may be good persons too .but how far it can be taken for granted

Are childhood day friends or classmates, whom we wish to meet now,reliable ?
YOU WILL FEEL PLEASURE TO SEE OLD FRIENDS
Reply:There will always be that bond but as you have pointed out, over the years they will have changed and developed different personalities and behave differently. Nothing wrong with that because you will have gone through the same thing yourself.





It is safe to contact them - sure it is. And no, they are not quite strangers.





You can look forward to building new and adult relationships based on good childhood foundations of one. If as a child you selected people to be your friend with the purest of thought and all that innocence, then you laid the foundation for a good friendship in later life. Go on, explore. You may find you guys get on better now.
Reply:if u hav spend long time with them earlier then u might to knw abt the person from the core .if u think he is good friend go %26amp;meet him. there might be some changes in his attitude or nature.
Reply:Is there any social or circumstantial reasons to renew the contacts with childhood friends or classmates? If yes, accept them as changed individuals and not as your childhood friends. You can easily assess them and decide about reliability, dependability etc. Please do not approach with a closed mind.
Reply:both of them because they two eye's of me
Reply:i agree with u.... they really become strangers..


to know about them we have to keep in touch with them


for few days to know their characters...its hard to


select a frnd after analysing him... but to be


safe in ur side u have to read every atitude of ur


frnd...
Reply:most ppl you meet up with again that you were in hs with or something....just want to talk to you to see if they're better off.
Reply:Humanly it is very difficult to judge a person, even if you move with those people any number of days either from childhood or on and off. It's all depends upon how we move with those people and what we give and what we get. If you are very lucky you may get good friends.Our old friends and classmates are always carry memorable things only, not only for you but also for others too. One thing I noticed from my age and experience that after sometime everybody changes and at the end of their life they become melow down a lot and you can also feel quite comfortable when we move with those people. You beleive me or not I met one of my friend a college mate without any contact with him after 42 years (I am 62 yrs. now) in a Super market in a foreign country. I could got him because his mannerism and he was quite shocked and spent his time with me till I return to my native country. Things are very strange. Hope you will also have the similar experience. Friendship is the only relation with minimum problem. All the best yours VRVRAO
Reply:we want both
Reply:Thats really a tough call pal. One really doesn't know how much you can rely on a person whom you have not met for years. Its only after you meet one, and be with them for sometime, you can take a decision.
Reply:bye