Thursday, August 19, 2010

I feel depresing when my classmates give quick answers,while i take a long time to do so ,what should i do?

study harder.

I feel depresing when my classmates give quick answers,while i take a long time to do so ,what should i do?
Everyone learns at different paces, don't get mad at yourself because you take longer to learn. It doesn't mean that anything is wrong with you. I am considered a thinker personality type which means I have to take time to think about everything while others can make snap decisions. I like to think things all the way through before I give an answer, it doesn't mean that I am slow or anything- just different.
Reply:I just heard something that I wish I had heard a long time ago. I hope it helps you. Here it is:





"Compare and despair."





Throughout your life you will find people who can do things better than you can, and people who have more stuff than you have, and people who are better looking than you are, etc., etc.





If you compare yourself to other people you will be miserable your whole life.





Let it go.





Appreciate the blessings that you do have and don't let others bring you down. You are unique in so many ways and you have much to offer. You also have so much in common with all other people in the world. Help those who feel the same way you do to see what is special about them. As you teach others not to compare themselves with other people, it will remind you to do the same.





Take care,





Gayle
Reply:You should study harder. Read the book/s. Write down key words/phrases. If you have a learning disorder, get help.
Reply:Don't sweat it. Some people are just 'thinkers' and would choose caution over jumping the gun...while others like to give blunt, straight forward answers. Some people go to a party and jump right in, while others sort of hang back and assess the situation before moving forward. Neither way is wrong. You probably think things through when making any decision. Some people just go from the gut.
Reply:don't feel bad I'm the same way. I'm always the last to answer the questions


now if when you answer them and your answering them wrong then you have to be concerned


being slow and giving answers is nothing to be concerned about.
Reply:see,u should never bother about it.they just want to show off that they know the answers.i mean,i don't think the answers that all give may be right.it's nothing to feel depressed.the real challenge is when it comes to examinations.may be they were able to answer some junk during the class hrs and there u have ur teacher to help them out but when it comes to examination you've gotta think and then and once one wrong is done it can't be changed.so,just forget it and take it easy don't feel depressed.


ALL THE BEST
Reply:you shouldnt do anything hunny nothings wrong with u some of us just take longer theres nothing wrong with that at all
Reply:don't sweat it...everyone works at a different pace. if it takes you longer to get the right answer...don't worry about the time it takes.
Reply:Increase your IQ.
Reply:dont feel bad. As long as you are making the grade then you should not be feeling depressed. Try to break your answers down as much as you can and maybe you will feel better,
Reply:nothin just act like whatever i already new that isnt there any dificult questions
Reply:Don't take it personally. I used to take it personal and got all depressed also when I was in school. It's not worth it. Everyone is different and has different strengths in life, so don't feel bad if you don't answer quickly.
Reply:haha hahahaha ha.........
Reply:you shouldnt be sad about this sort of thing. i'm the exact opposite. i will finish my tests about 20 to 30 minutes faster than some people in my class, and i'm always kind of embarrassed because i worry that i didnt think about it enough. So dont worry, every one worries a little about how fast they finish a test. As long as you understand what your doing, then the time has nothing to do with it. some people can just pull up the required information faster under the circumstances than other.
Reply:It's not a matter of how fast you can solve it. If you know the answer and your just thinking about it, take your time, your just as on the same level as the other kid. Be confident, you don't have to get all hard on yourself just cause your too slow, some are slow thinkers, some are quick. Some people are deep thinkers, and some are out of the box. Just be calm and stay confident when you try to answer it
Reply:your classmates give quick answer because they have read that page already at home or they are taking tution from anyone
Reply:take your time
Reply:answer quicker?
Reply:Don't worry the same thing happens to me. This doesn't mean that you're stupid or anything like that. As long as you understand, then there is really nothing to worry about.
Reply:You take your time it's not a race It will get you confused So what if it takes you a lil longer it's not like you ride the short yellow bus or anything just have more confidence in yourself


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