How to convince my former classmates or randomly met people to hang out with me?

As now is summer, the only chance for me to contact them is Facebook. Most people ignore my comments but they are not mean or pointless. Some answers to my post when I ask "how is summer going" or something like that. But when my comment suggest hanging out or something I get no response. From one I got message that he is super busy but had in head message that "he is ready to party!". I do not understand! Other than that to join club or fraternity next year, what I can do to improve my relationships?

How to convince my former classmates or randomly met people to hang out with me?
Lol, I'd hang out wit u if I could heheh. n_n





I don't see how it's bad to want to hang out. Maybe they are busy.. who knows :( or they never check their facebook lol.





You'll find out next skl year anyway =P it's easier to distinguish people's feelings when they're there. You know, with you.





Believe me, the best thing for you is to be yourself, be nice and try to pay a lot of attention to them. It's one of those things. Everybody seems to need attention, whether they may seem to need it or not :P Just don't try to mask who you are on the inside through the process, that gets bad. :)





Don't try too hard or think of negative thoughts on the way. Your friends should be the ones making you feel good, NOT left out or sad or anything like that. I would not consider those people my friends if I were you :P





Hold your head up high my friend. =) Be yourself. If they can't accept that then they're not quite your friends then are they. Dance a lil. Your life's not supposed to revolve around your friends, it's all about you. :) Besides, don't little things just make you smile? A song, a walk, a cute animal, a drawing, a shower, a funny scene, etc. :D





... Life's too short to be miserable. =)
Reply:its not right to convince people to like u just be urself an if they dont want to hang out with u for that just find better people that would cuz there is no sense in being something u r not
Reply:You can`t " convince " people to hang out with you, either they will or they won`t. If people don`t want to hang out with you then the answer is obvious, isn`t it ?.
Reply:Sorry to say forget them that mean and rude you shouldn't spend time with people like that find new friends or tell them you having a party ( and actually have one) and need help planning for it that should do the trick
Reply:u should pay for them