I love one of my classmates(Its really love, not a crush) But telling her about my feelings seems pointless..?

because i know she is not into me(dont ask me how,i am sure she doesnt feel the same way) i feel really hopeless this time. i feel sick and weak all day and dont want to do anything.its like im living in hell without her.School is closed and i cant see her(im 19 by the way,dont think im 12) what should i do? i really need help!!

I love one of my classmates(Its really love, not a crush) But telling her about my feelings seems pointless..?
My advice: Talk to at least three new pretty girls every day. I'm betting that by the end of the summer this "problem" may have solved itself.
Reply:Love isn't easy and it isn't always fair. Think about what exactly it is that makes you love her. It's gotta be something REAL, like her personality, or her special traits, not just her eye or hair color. You're still very young and may not have experienced real love quite yet. If she's your friend and you feel comfortable around her, then you should tell her how you feel without coming across as desperate. That's usually a turnoff for girls. If she's your friend, she should understand and respect your feelings. And who knows what could happen? If you just know each other from sitting in class together, then you need to be more delicate in how your approach to revealing your feelings. Don't blurt out everything at once. Start with something simple, like how you had fun in class and you think she's a cool person to talk to. And be careful if she has a boyfriend. Respect the relationship. She'll see you as kind and a good-hearted person. If she doesn't have a boyfriend and responds positively when you tell her about your interest in her, keep going with the compliments, but don't overdo it. Perhaps you could suggest a time and place to hang out together, but don't make it a date. Invite other people to come along so she doesn't feel awkward or pressured into doing anything she doesn't want to do, no matter what it may be.
Reply:Love means never having to say you're sorry.
Reply:How in the world do you think you love this girl?? lol.... what you are is infatuated with her. Alot. It's normal, but if she doesn't like you, any attempt to get her attention is going to seem desperate and sad. Enjoy the rest of your summer before you go back, when you see her next say hi and be nice, but please don't make yourself look like a freak.
Reply:well, I'd tell her. My b/f told me and he was sure I wasn't into him. (HELLO! I am! looong story)


you can never really be sure if she likes you or not, and she'll respect you for telling her (unless she's a snob, be careful, I'd hate for her to be nasty about it and run to her friends and tell then all you said just to get a laugh out of it, if she is that kind of girl, you deserve better!), even if she doesn't feel the same about you.