Problems with father and male classmates growing up contributed to my homosexuality?

I'm bisexual, and for a while I thought I was just born this way. After all, the twin studies seem to be in favor of this theory. However.. this other theory makes sense too. My father has always been pretty critical of me and we don't have a great relationship. It's not horrible, but we dont get along alot of the time. Growing up, I was pretty feminine and the popular boys in my class would make fun of me. Do you think that my lack of acceptance from men and boys growing up has caused me to seek acceptance and love from them in a homosexual way now? It seems like it would make sense.

Problems with father and male classmates growing up contributed to my homosexuality?
I think this makes sense.... For me, I am bisexual female..... Growing up my parents had porn ALL over the house.... It was all naked woman all the time..... i learned to love the sight of a beautiful woman and appreciate her..... That combined with all my negative experiences with men, led me to realize that while sex with a man is nice, it really isn't a full time thing for me........ I also got very little exceptance from men, but the woman in my life were always loving and nurturing AND i was sexually abused by a woman...... SO, I don't buy the whole everyone who is gay was born gay thing... nature vrs nurture....... it is always a fight, but I think that we don't have to pick one.... you can have both..... some were born that way, and some were created..... i think that bisexuals are more likely created but who really knows... ........
Reply:No. You were born that way. You can't change it.
Reply:i doubt that this would make you aroused at a naked man's body. these theories don't apply to us all, sexuality is programmed into us at birth and is complex
Reply:No, sexuality is neither homo or hetero. Its just plain sexuality for humanities sake. All men and all women have desires for those of the same sex at one time or another. How its manifested is what determines what category we fall into. Most are pressured, socialy and thats what they feel comfortable doing. These desires are as powerful as they have for those of the opposite sex. You were expressing yourself long before they started making fun of you, isn't that the reason they did, You just made a choice that fits your life. Some choose to catagorize themselves and their sexuality. Hetero and homosexuals are as equality discreminating in their choices, that is to say they exclude base on a pre determined set of rules usualy having to do with the pipeing.. You have adopted a set of rules and standards to which you will not deviate from. Ask yourself why and you will answer your question. Me I choose physical and charateristic traits not so much the packages below. I enjoy being with careing, strong, healthy individuals with a zest for life and living and who want the same. Its simple for me. Do I exclude, yes but its more of an age thing. Mature adult persons who meet the above requirements. Fortunately I have met my sould mate. Its a women, but I was not looking for a women or a man, just a soul mate. I Its a scary philosophy to adopt because hell you might find someone who does not fit the social norms of those whom you run with, who the family disaproves but hopefully they understand. No one can make you do anything you really don't want to do.
Reply:It would cause you to perhaps seek acceptance, but it wouldn't cause you to be attracted to them physically. I can't imagine that theory contributing to physical attraction at all.





Plenty of men have daddy issues and most are not gay. There isn't a connection there, I assure you.
Reply:There's no telling, but consider this: when a lesbian has a lousy relationship with her father, social conservatives often blame her attraction to women on this problem. The same goes for gay men. It would seem to me that, following their logic, either the lesbian should have grown up with the desire to please men, or the gay man should have grown up with a desire to please women. The standard can't be applied to both gay men and lesbians, although it often is.





I know a lot of people who had horrible relationships with one or both of their parents, and I'd say only about 5-10% of them grew up to be gay...that follows the accepted national average for homosexuality. So while it isn't impossible to connect your childhood experience to your current romantic and sex life, I'd say it's a stretch to conclude it's the defining reason you grew up to be bisexual.
Reply:Maybe, but don't you think your feminie behaviour was an indication that you were aleready bi or gay?
Reply:It is possible. I have been doing a lot of research on this topic as I am very confused about MY sexuality.





From what i learned, there are two factors that create homosexuality... those who are born homosexual and those who have adapted to homosexuality.





Most gay men and women are born that way, their genes did not develop the same way as straight people. Whatever happens their orientation is already set at birth and will never change.





But another group, those who are either abused as children, without a father figure, segregated with boys only, etc have turned to homosexuality as a biological need.





It seems that some people are more prone in becoming gay because of different level of development in their genes, so while others turned out straight, there will be those who will turn out gay depending on their biological need.





Well... that's all for now. Good luck.
Reply:that is a Freudian way to look at it.

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