Classmates setting up 'hate clubs' againest me!?

im moved schools in september and miss my old friends very very much. i had lots of friends at my old school and was very popular but at this new school a couple of people have started hate clubs against me. one of the 'members' i thought was nearly my best friend but my other 'friend' says shes in the 'club'. i really havent done anything to any of them thats why im so upset over why they hate me! at the moment, im not talking about anybody even though i want to incase somebody tells them and give them something to hate me for.


i dont know who to trust and who to call friends. what to do?


please help me.

Classmates setting up 'hate clubs' againest me!?
omg! what bitches. look honey, you have to ignore them. this is the time when you must not argue with them, then you've lost. hang around with some other people or go to your class room. talk to your parents or teachers. be strong. you're very brave! take care





-xxx- Wharfie -xxx-
Reply:Watch Mean Girls and pick up a few tips on how to deal with these evil women. All you have to do is catch one of them doing something stupid and then you can turn the tables on them. Or you could move on and go to another group where they like you.
Reply:I think you should tell them that there is nothing rong with you. They must be really mean to do such a horrible thing. First i would stand up to them but if it gets really bad then tell a teacher.


Can i tell you i was bullied at school aswell and i followed this and i have lots and lots of friends now.


Good luck.
Reply:1) these people are unbelievably sad and have no life if they go to the point of setting up a club!! they need to get a LIFE!! God, if that is all they have to do for fun, they are just stupid, sad, boring people, and you are too good for them to even be thinking of them. The leader of this group or whatever just needs to crawl into a hole and live with the moles until she finds her common sense, and, more importantly, her BRAIN!!!


2) you are obviously sooo much maturer than them. rise above it and ignore them. i know this is easier said than done- just try. i am telling you from experience here babe.


3) find a set of friends who arent a part of this group and just be friendly. if you cant think of anyone, join a club or go to the library or something where you will find some more fab people like you!!


4) tell a teacher you trust. they need to be aware of the situation, because there is no excuse for what they are doing. they need to be punished, andd teachers are definitely the best people to talk to.





hope this helps babe. i know how hard it can be, ive been to 4 different schools (7+) and i know that it can be scary and awful and loadsa other things. but you cant let these bitches rule your life and make you miserable. To be frank, they all sound as if they should have been removed from the gene pool at birth. i hope everyhting gets sorted, you deserve way betta, and sound like a lovely person, so pleeeease hang in there!!! take care xx
Reply:i know hgow u feel i had to go to a new skool but i just started talking to people who wouldnt change me or my personality now i have alot of kool krazy friendz BE URSELF AND IGNORE THOSE BITCHES
Reply:Do you think that they could be jealous of you?


Did one of their bf's make a comment that you were nice looking %26amp; that made them mad?


Talk to the school counselor %26amp; let them know what is going on, %26amp; then maybe you should think about joining some school club programs, that way you can meet different people %26amp; get away from this group.
Reply:dont worry about who really likes you. just be yourself and people will respect that.





if this hate club starts actually hurting you, or making threats, then the cops are there to protect you, so use them. try the school principal first, but if that doesn't work, it might call for more drastic measures.
Reply:Thats dumb i bet its jealousy
Reply:tell them: trying to win a fight on the internet is like winning the special olympics, even if u win, ur still retarded. then see what they think. lol
Reply:I'm sorry, that sounds awful.





Most likely, these people are just jealous of you. Imagine thinking so much about someone else that you set up a club about them! The best thing to do is ignore people who act rude or mean to you.





Do you believe this friend that your other friend is in the club? She might be, but she might not be.





Try to make some friends outside of these people. Hopefully your school is big enough. If not, hang in there, life gets better after high school, I promise.
Reply:you never said your age but just be earnest in your new school ..... you may feel like the only one without 100's of friends but there are so many people ...... like you .... just do your own thing-- that will piss them off
Reply:If they have organized an actual "club" promoting hate toward another student, they could all face expulsion! It's harassment, and the person responsible could prob be arrested for it! No one should have to learn in that type of environment. Tell the principal.